XMizer Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 What does this girl want from me?... and what should I do? There's this girl that I met at a party. We met once and afterwards, she would always start conversations with me online. Last week, I invited her to a gathering of people who she doesn't know, and she drove 30 minutes just to see me. It seems like she likes me, but I haven't taken any action because of my lack of confidence. I have been underemployed and unemployed for the past 2 years and she is fully aware of that. She has a pretty job and she's pretty too, so if she likes me, I have no idea what she sees in me. I like her back and I want to come out of my shell and move things forward. So how do you guys think what I should do and do you think she actually likes me?
todreaminblue Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 Yes she probably likes you ....dont worry about what she sees in you ......often we are the last to see what others see...if we even recognize the qualities we have we dont see them .... whatever it is that she does see in you, is probably something special......just be open in conversation and build up your confidence, the more you talk, the more relaxed you will feel.....keep a smile on your dial and have fun..... confidence comes with practice and patience, go easy on yourself, dont analyse everything you do or dont say and just relax...which you will, probably the more you converse with her...do what comes natural...say what comes naturally and dont force yourself...let it happen..best wishes.....deb..........
Author XMizer Posted July 7, 2013 Author Posted July 7, 2013 Thanks for the reassurance. How would I go about escalating things?
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