kyle77 Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 For the most part I've been doing good, regarding my ex. I have basically forgotten her for the past few months. Which I think is good. But now I am worried I might relapse, if you will, and cave into some of my leftover feelings for her. I'm actually scared because I feel like that would be a step backwards for me and I don't want to go in that direction. Is there any way I can get rid of this fear? I want to be able to just let go completely but I can't for some reason. Have you guys experienced this fear as well? Is this normal?
The Situation Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 Kyle, it's normal. I am relapsing. Too many reminders bring it all back. It really is tough, but in my case (which I hope brings you some peace), is that you'll likely always have feelings for her. If you broke just because it didn't 'work out' rather than cheating etc, I don't see how there won't always be something there. One of my exes can die in a fire (not literally) for what she did, while the other I want to be happy, preferably with me one day. The latter is quite possibly similar to yours, and accepting that soft spot is the aim to dulling the worry, I think.
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