Stringfellow Posted October 20, 2004 Posted October 20, 2004 Ladies and Gentlemen I am asking the following question, need to know what you all think? Would you want your significant other working with a person that they have had an affair with in the past that lasted for 2 yrs, and they take business trips together alone? Here is the reason why I am curious, I asked her to marry me and she said yes, she left on the business trip with him and came back 2 days later to say "no" that she just said yes to amke me feel good while she was out of town on business. My thoughts are she cheated on me while on that business trip. Would feeling insecure in that relationship be justified after this event? String
bluechocolate Posted October 20, 2004 Posted October 20, 2004 I asked her to marry me and she said yes, she left on the business trip with him and came back 2 days later to say "no" that she just said yes to amke me feel good while she was out of town on business. If someone could be that flippant about a proposal for marriage I wouldn't care who they were sleeping with 'cause it sure as heck wouldn't be me.
bluetuesday Posted October 20, 2004 Posted October 20, 2004 this is the second time you've posted this question, string. didn't get the answer you wanted first time round...? look, there is no universal right and wrong. but YOU feel it's unacceptable therefore it's unacceptable to you. most people will agree with you and think how she has acted is unacceptable too. it's your relationship, you set the rules. if you're unhappy, make changes. if changes are impossible, get out.
LittleMiss Posted October 20, 2004 Posted October 20, 2004 Dump her and find someone else. I can't believe she did that to you. No one deserves to be treated like that. You deserve so much better than that!
Artifact Posted October 20, 2004 Posted October 20, 2004 I wouldn't care much after I got that response. She wouldn't be my significant other. I wouldn't want to marry, nor date, someone who said something just to make me feel better. (Unless he was telling me how drop dead gorgeous I was.) These simplistic feel good things are usually minute in a relationship. NOT something like a marriage proposal. Get away. Go. Run.
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