CurlyIam Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 YEah, but statistically speaking, women do live longer than men. I cannot imagine myself at an old age alone. As a matter of fact, the main reason I'm up at this freaking time is because I think I got used to sharing my bed with my bf and considering that I'm not doing so but once, maybe twice a week, the rest of the days I'm a damn insomniac! What troubles me most is that when he's around I need to catch up on my sleep...and I sleep like log!
CurlyIam Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 Originally posted by Nosmas Well, Curley dearest, I'm not DEAD YET!!!! Oh, I'm so sure you're a making your presence known in real life !!! Snill....look at your situation from a practical pov: he's going to jail. You just got rid of him a bit earlier. I'd be glad if I bought a few extradays from such a man. I think you're in a sh*ty place right now, as you are inlove and you do want him back (although you are a proud woman). Save your breath and forget about how good you were together or why he left or why her, etc. Let go (fast!!).
Nosmas Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 Ahhhh........if only I could be sure you meant in the biblical sense...............
Nosmas Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 "known in real life"..........to "know".............. oh, forget it..............I'm gonna take my teeth out, have a little warm milk, and go to bed befor 9 PM! Before I exaust ancient myself!
CurlyIam Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 Oh, I get it! It's the same thing in French (difference between rencontrer et connaître, both mean to meet. I once said to my neighbours I had "met" my friend's husband... didn't find that funny, but everyone else did) Oh, well, milk is good. Just don't imply that other than a sexual-history discriminator, I'm an doing the same thing with age. I just find that personally, no ten years older man could keep up with me, nor could they give me the type of freedom I wanted. Come to think of it, I've tried it with a guy who was 4 years older than I am.... Now my current bf is one year older... Who knows, in a couple of years, I'll be searching for a date in kindergarden....
CurlyIam Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 BTW, Sam, not being able to bite ain't your problem!
snilljente Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 Thanks Curly...I AM trying to forget and try not to torture myself with why her, why not me....etc....the weird thing is besides having to go to jail (he said he is innocent and was 'set up'), he seemed perfect...I guess people are capable of putting on incredible acts for a short period of time....I love who I thought he was and who I know that he clearly isn't now that I have seen both sides of him....I couldn't take him back, even if I wanted, he has been with her and I don't except guys back who have broken up with me..I figure, they had their chance and threw it away and they don't get another chance!!
humph.. Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 my boyfriends first serious relationship was with a 30 year old woman when he was 20....!
snilljente Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 I doubt the 30 year old woman thought it was "serious"...unless she was half nuts...there are very few 20 year old men on the planet that would be capatible (sp?) with a emotionally healthy 30 year old woman.....He may have considered it his first serious relationship, but it would be interesting to hear her point of few....likely just having fun with a younger man.....sowing her wild oats perhaps?!
adarkcloud Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 I just turned 17 and my boyfriend is 24. I can say even from my point of view that If I wasn't with my boyfriend, and I found out one of my friends were dating someone more then 5 years older then them at this point in there life i would think they are crazy. Its more crazy from the guys side then I think from the girls. Of course any girl wants a hotter more mature guy, but what exactly makes an older guy want SUCH a younger girl? Me and my boyfriend were best friends before we were actually together, and we never intendid on ever being together. We are just so much alike and make eachother want to be better people and make eachother so happy it just happened. Just tell this guy becareful and not to get in trouble. There are laws out there. If the parents don't agree with it, he needs to stay away.
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