How being cheated on made me a better man.

July 7, 2013

OK. I'v been reading this site for a while now and I think it's about time I register. I have been lurking around for a bi hand keep coming across heartbroken men who are going through depression because their significant others betrayal.

This is just something I wrote on my blog, after my worst break up yet. I blog and vent when I feel like it. I pulled this out of my archives. It might be maybe 8 mouths old. Hope someone out here can get some use of of it.

Sorry for the length of it, I really had a lot to say. Thanks, and be easy, It is my first post here.

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My name is James Weber and about 4 years ago I met the love of my life, Or at least I thought She was the love of my life,

her name is Katelyn Mosey, me and her shared what I thought was the perfect relationship, we dated for 5 mouths and I finally

asked her to be exclusive to me. She happily accepted my request and since then we were in a very happy relationship and

everyday I spent with her, was the soul purpose to try and make her the happiest women she can possibly be.

This all fell apart about 6 mouths ago. Give me a chance to explain myself, This was somewhat a very long 6 mouths so I will

cut it short if I can. I work in wall street, and my job requires me to travel a lot, Maybe a bit too much for any

relationship of mine to be in better shape then this one ended in. My now ex girlfriend Kate was very upset at the beginning

to learn about my job and the amount of time I dedicate to it, But my job is really who I am. I'm 27 and a very successful

stock trader and business adviser. Anyhow, My relationship with Kate crashed and burned when I left for a business trip to

Seattle, Washington. This was not out of the ordinary for her because she knew going into our relationship that my life is a

somewhat busy and chaotic one, yet now that I am no longer with her I can say this, I'm sure she hated my job but loved my

penthouse and the money I make. She never complained about her my credit card.

After my departure for Seattle, Witch was only a 5 day business trip, We agreed to speak over the phone every day and text

message each other every hour or so. I, knowing how busy I would be doing my job, Agreed to her communication plan and told

her I would do my best. 4 Days into the trip and 20 clients I have to meet with and set more appointments and lunches with,

my girlfriend became irate with me over voice mail for not picking up her phone calls. I tried to call back after I was done

working but she only had more aggressive rants to trow at me, Working, Meeting with people all day, I had no energy to

deal with it. So I hung up and fell asleep.

After I returned to New York, She was very apologetic, This was very out of character for her and I began to get a feeling in

my stomach that something was not right. After my suspicion fell I was just happy to see her and get to spend a whole week

with her, We planned out what we would do, but just before we were getting things back to normal, I get a phone call from a

very close friend and co-worker. He asks me to meet him for lunch, He said it had something to do with Kate.

My suspicion arose again, but I maintained my composure around Kate and left briefly to meet my friend Nicholas for lunch.

We met at a old pizza parlor and his demeanor was off putting. The way he sat and looked at me. He told me over a 3 hour

lunch that he found Kate being unfaithful and cheating on me the night I stopped taking her phone calls. Of course I did not

believe him at first, but then he gave me no choice. He showed me a photo of Kate In a bar, he was in the night She cheated

and It was of Kate and other man, much older, they where kissing and hugging each other. This was a knife to my chest. I felt

sick at first and felt like vomiting my breakfast. I just cloud not believe it, 4 years of my profound loyalty to this woman,

the women I wished to marry, the future mother of my child. This was too much to bear and I just cloud not face going to my

apartment where Kate was staying. I just took off.

I headed to Philadelphia, to my older sister's home. I stayed the night while my cell phone rang without stop from Kate

and her again irate voice mails demanding to know where I was. My sister and her husband advised me to stay away from New York for the next day and collect my thoughts about the situation. After spending the day in Philadelphia I decided to go back to New York and confront Kate about what she had done. This must have been the most painful drive of my life. After arriving at my apartment, She was upset and hurtling insults and advising me to fix this problem I had with my attitude to our relationship. After she said that, I must have used up all my will strength not to hurt this women with all my strength, the nerve someone must have to hand in relationship advice, right after cheating on your partner, It made my blood boil. I took a shower to cool off and she went to her apartment to continue packing for our never to be had week away together. After she came back and I had put away all my anger in destroying most of our framed photos together. I decided it was time to talk.

She came over to find me unpacking my clothing from the day before, after we had a long silence. I told her I knew what she

did that Friday night. She looked confused and then acted offended as if I was accusing her of doing something wrong, I

proceeded in showing her the photo my friend took of her and her new friend she made. She stared at me then started to cry

and cry, She looked at me like I had done this to us and I was the one to blame. This bit of the story I will spare you from

since it only contains me listing to her bullsh*t justification about how I caused her to cheat on me that night and how She

made a huge mistake and blah blah blah, really, too much self pity and self blame for anyone to find it in anyway

reasonable. After her rampant crying and begging me for forgiveness I asked her to take her things and leave. She refused and

told me she loved me too much to give up on our relationship, after me repeatedly asking her to leave I finally made it very

clear to her that she had just thrown away 4 years of a relationship for a one night stand. I yelled at her and told her some

things that might have been a bit too aggressive and hurtful. she looked stunned for a second after I stopped and I grabbed

her things threw then out of the door of my apartment and asked her leave her key and never come back.

After this whole argument and shouting witch I had to apologize to my neighbor next door for, She started again with late

night phone calls and voice mails full of crying and begging. She sent page long text messages and went as far as using other

peoples cell phones to call me and text me after I blocked her number and removed her from my Facebook page and email

contacts. At this point my life was feeling very empty and strange, and for a second I thought about calling her, But the

rational side of my brain cut into these thoughts and prevented me from trowing more fuel into the fire. After 2 days of no

contact and no sigh of her, I get a phone call from my sister in Philadelphia. She explains to me that Kate had come to her

house in an extremely late time of night to ask her for advice in dealing with me ignoring her and wanting nothing to do with

her. My sister told me she had to call the police because she refused to leave her front porch and started to scare her

younger son. Apparently she was escorted off the property by police and afterwards my sister called me to tell me this. I was

angry at her for what she did to me, but no one f*cks with my sister, I had enough. I went to her apartment and she was

inside with her mom, crying. I asked her to step outside and informed her that I had cut all financial contact from her and

that her cell phone was about to be canceled, her credit card canceled and I was no longer going to be putting payments for

her car. I asked her to never return to my sister's home and to stay the f*ck away from my family. I told her It was over and

as much as I still loved her, I knew I would never be able to move on and forgive her. She then stopped crying, hugged me and

said i love you.

After getting all her sh*t out of my house and cleaning my place, I decided to have a party for my last day of vacation. I

must have invited about 30 people because my place was packed, hoping she did not show up since it was invite only, she

didn't but even worse her father showed up demanding to talk to me. I asked him politely to leave then he gave me some very

disturbing news, He told me that Kate has not been eating and has not stopped crying and has not been to work since I ended

things between us, I expressed my empathy for her, since all the hate and anger at her had dissipated over the last few days.

He told me she has began cutting herself and had not been responding to any phone calls from friends and says things that

mention suicide. I simply told him I felt sorry for her and asked him to leave my home. He was very upset and called me

heartless and stubborn, after he called me heartless I became enraged and yelled out why I had ended things with her, I felt

bad about this since me and Kate's parents had a very good relationship before 6 mounts ago. I told him that there is nothing

I could do since she was the one who caused this all to happen.

Keep in mind I remained firm and loyal to this woman for over 4 years and even came times when I was away and tempted to do

the wrong thing, I never did. So as far as her escapade of excuses about her being drunk and feeling lonely that night, She

will never receive any sympathy from me, There were times I felt like that, but never came close to doing anything unfaithful

or disrespectful to her. Sorry Kate, if your reading this, Excuses are just that, Excuses, They never justify your

betrayal. Sorry, you get no sympathy from me.

Anyway, after my return to work, Things felt different. I started to miss her more and more since I had grown used to coming

home and sharing dinner with her. But being cool headed and logical I stayed away from her. I started to surround myself with

friends and spent a lot of time in Philly with my sister and nephews. Still, I got strange E-mails at work from addresses I

never added into my contacts. I figured they where from some of Kate's friends, most filed with belligerent rants about how

much of a bastard I am and how much Kate's friends hates me now. Me not caring I spam blocked all of them and continued on

with my life. This part is where things just became sad. I get a knock on the door at around 10 pm. It's Kate, and by the

looks of it, she hasn't been doing so well, she looks, well in short words.. bad. Her hair looked like it got dyed about 10

times and looked almost like spray paint, She smelled horrible and looked like she started to smoke again, given from the

smell of tobacco coming from her ripped up jeans and food stained t-shirt. She just looked at me when I opened the door and

said "Hi James." I replied with a simple, "Hi?" followed by a "What do you want?" she looked at my again and asked me if I

still held resentment at her, I was honest and said, "Every single emotion that I had for you, Anger, Happiness, Sadness,

Resentment or hate is now gone." She asked to come in and I simple said "OK."

Having her back in my home was somewhat strange and since then I had chanced the place and had it fixed the way I always wanted

to. She looked around and said the place looked good, and that I looked good as well. She sat down and told me to listen.

This is what she had to say.

Kate- "I know things between us ended badly, and I now I have come to realize that it was all because of me. No matter how

much at the time I wanted to blame you for everything that happened between us, I just can't continue to lie to myself

anymore. I destroyed our life and hurt you in the most profound way possible, Everything you said to me was true, I did ****

up, I ****ed up not you, I threw away our life together and It by far is a mistake I will have to live with for the rest of

my life, A mistake I wake up and wish was just a dream, but realizing shortly after that I made that choice, and now I have

to live with it. Look at me for a second and you can tell, I have been living with it (Me:I can see that.), But as much as I

tried to take it back, you still returned all my apologies back at me. I know, things can never be the same between us, and

Trust me, The last thing I want is to be close to someone who I have hurt, but I wish for a second you could see that I

really am truly sorry for what I did, and I know there is nothing I can do to take it back, I spent these 4 mouths wishing I

could take it back, but I can't. I came here tonight to tell you what's on my mind, and to try and show you why things

happened the way they did. I'm truly sorry for hurting you James, and I'm truly sorry to tell you this but, I can't continue

to see you around town, I'v seen you out with other women so I know you are truly over me, and That makes me extremely sad

and hurt but also makes me happy to see that you have put me and what I did to you in your past and have learnt to over come

the pain. James I'm truly sorry for doing what I did to you. I just hope in time you can look back and see what I did as a

rough time in your life and learn to forgive me instead of forget me. I'm leaving New York tomorrow, I can't bare the pain of

seeing you with another women knowing inside I still love you with everything. (Me: you really don't have to do that Katelyn,

I'v moved past it, I don't in any way recent you.) I know, and I'm glad, I just can't bare to live here anymore. Too much

reminds me of you, us. I'm leaving and I hope in time I can return here and feel something other than self shame and profound

sadness. I know you can forgive me, because your a better person then I am, But I just can't forgive myself. Goodbye James, Thank you

for the happy times.

She kisses me on the cheek and leaves. It's the last time I will see her.

I honestly never expected this from her, I knew her for around 5 years and never had a deep apology from her like this, It

made me reflect on myself, I was strangely feeling sorry for her, I felt like I needed to stop her but something inside me just told me to let her go, She looked like well.. ****, I cloud tell she had gained a lot of weight and was not in the best

place in her life. Still, I let her go, The last time I her of her, from a friend of hers over email. She had moved to Canada

with a guy she met over a dating site and later broke up with. She lives in Toronto, Ontario and works at a burger king.

I feel somewhat responsible for this but again, I never wanted this to go the way it did. I feel like I should have said

something before she left, but I don't have a clue what I would say to her. If I did somehow cause her life to take such a

grim and dark turn. I truly wanna apologize Kate. I was foolish to think I cloud inflect my pain by ignoring you and saying

hurtful and angry things to you. If your reading this Kate, I am sorry for how it ended between us, I put myself over you and

was not understanding of your feelings, I was to blinded by my pain to think clearly of my approach to us, and I can't help

but feel somewhat responsible for you. I hope you can have the best life possible and find a way to forgive your self. I did

it Kate, I remember you, and forgive you.

After the 5th mouth I moved on, I am starting to date again and keeping my life open to anyone. I no longer hold any

resentment for her nor do I hold any resentment for any cheaters. My life is back together and improved. I got a promotion at

work, I will be buying a summer house soon, and one of my nephews will be attending the same business school I attended. I'v

been with other women and have put Kate in my memories. I honest can say with a conscious heart that Kate was a learning

experience I will never forget. She must not have been the one but has helped me to understand more about

relationships and the way to conduct my feelings. I have to say, being cheated on was one of the best things that has

happened to me. I'v grown so much since and have learned to much from it, I'v become a better person from it and have learned

to accept the things that I can't control and put them behind me. So yes, I will never forget Kate, But I have grown to

forgive her, where ever she is.

To any men who are dealing with an unfaithful partner, hear me out and listen to me. This is not something that you can

control, So instead of hiding away and feeling anger and resentment, Embrace your pain and darkness. Feel your pain, It's what makes you human, It's what makes you alive and makes you a person inside. Never run from pain, Learn from your pain and learn to use your pain to create something out of it. Happiness. Because at the end of a relationship, No matter how bad it has ended, all you will have after the sadness, anger, resentment, and pain are gone. Are memories. Don't forget to use them. They are there for a reason. Learn and grow from them. Learn to forgive the person who caused you the pain and thank them for it. Thank them because at the end of it all, they saved you from themselves. Love yourself and respect yourself. Thank you for those who took the time to read my story, thank you. My name is James, Thanks for everything Kate

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July 7, 2013

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To any men who are dealing with an unfaithful partner, hear me out and listen to me. This is not something that you can

control, So instead of hiding away and feeling anger and resentment, Embrace your pain and darkness. Feel your pain, It's what makes you human, It's what makes you alive and makes you a person inside. Never run from pain, Learn from your pain and learn to use your pain to create something out of it. Happiness. Because at the end of a relationship, No matter how bad it has ended, all you will have after the sadness, anger, resentment, and pain are gone. Are memories. Don't forget to use them. They are there for a reason. Learn and grow from them. Learn to forgive the person who caused you the pain and thank them for it. Thank them because at the end of it all, they saved you from themselves. Love yourself and respect yourself. Thank you for those who took the time to read my story, thank you. My name is James, Thanks for everything Kate

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Hey James. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. Though I have never experienced it before, your insights were extremely helpful and I think you played it very well. I think your ex came to realization and she realized what she had lost. You seem like a great guy, in fact a perfect man: successful, smart, and confident. If women can't see that, it's not your fault. So happy for you and I am so happy to have read this because I will one day look back and learn from your mistakes. Thank you for sharing!

July 7, 2013

Hey James. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. Though I have never experienced it before, your insights were extremely helpful and I think you played it very well. I think your ex came to realization and she realized what she had lost. You seem like a great guy, in fact a perfect man: successful, smart, and confident. If women can't see that, it's not your fault. So happy for you and I am so happy to have read this because I will one day look back and learn from your mistakes. Thank you for sharing!

Thank you so much for the reply, I was starting to think no one was going to take the time to read this given the length of it all. I'm glad to hear someone got some use of it. Like I told my friend who is going troughs somewhat the same situation of a break up like me. He is trying to hide from his pain using alcohol and drugs, I'v talked with his and have told him what I have learned in the time I have spent going at this. You can't love being happy and then Hate being in pain. Life doesn't work that way, Happiness will always be Pain and Pain will always be happiness. You have to learn to accept both of them in with welcoming arms and learn to embrace them both, Just like I tell religion people. You can't Believe in God and not believe in Satan. You have to believe in both and accept both into your life, The moment you do, is the moment you find the middle ground and learn to balance your life.

Just like pain. Pain is a part of life, Just like light, There can't be light without darkness. You must learn to embrace both and learn the code.

A Praise to the good, and a sacrifice to the bad.

The line I live my life by. I accept my darkness because with it, I can make light.

Thanks for reading my post. Sorry it was so long!

July 7, 2013

It was a very deep and profound story James. As you rightly said: ability to learn from our pain, mistakes, and things we've done, and others have makes us human. I completely agree with that!

Good to know that sooner or later Kate realized that lying to herself and others wasn't the answer. She finally faced the problem, and then you and apologized. I believe that's the only thing a cheater can do to somehow ease the pain of someone who was cheated on.

It's great that after all you are still a successful man and doing great. I hope Kate will achieve the same in her life eventually. I think it can only get better for her now. After realizing the facts and facing them.

Thank you for sharing your story!

July 7, 2013

It was a very deep and profound story James. As you rightly said: ability to learn from our pain, mistakes, and things we've done, and others have makes us human. I completely agree with that!

Good to know that sooner or later Kate realized that lying to herself and others wasn't the answer. She finally faced the problem, and then you and apologized. I believe that's the only thing a cheater can do to somehow ease the pain of someone who was cheated on.

It's great that after all you are still a successful man and doing great. I hope Kate will achieve the same in her life eventually. I think it can only get better for her now. After realizing the facts and facing them.

Thank you for sharing your story!

Thank you, I'm glad i posted this.

July 7, 2013

Thanks James.

I am dealing with an emotional affair / GIGS break up and although it didn't get to the physical point after 5 years, it hurts just the same. I am a day and a bit removed from the actual break up and NC and am trying to embrace the pain. I believe after reading all of the stories regarding the GIGS syndrome and your story that I am letting go of the resentment and anger I had towards her.

I became the guy that tried to hold onto something that wasnt there and became the whuss that put her on a pedestal for 5 years. It was always about her and I constantly caved to a point I couldnt take things anymore.

I was emotionally exhausted always waiting on her, letting her decide what to do. I was never a challenge after the first year and even though it was 3 years later it fell apart, I let go of who I was for her.

The break up went amicably but she knew I was still mad when I told her I wanted NC, as she still wanted to contact me. I honestly have accepted her wanting to explore herself and hold no ill will to her despite how crappy I feel right now. I know how much hell the first 30 hours have been for me, and I know she is going through the same thing, and the funny thing is I still feed bad for her. I know its wrong and I have to stick to my guns to work on me, but there is that little part of me that still feels bad she is going to be in as much pain as I am...maybe more.

July 7, 2013

Hold in their, Your pain will fade away with alittle time. Just make sure you have NO contact with her and have nothing to remember her by while you are in the process of moving on. Keeping things close to her or things that remind you of her will only make it harder to let it go. but that's just what you have to do. Let things go.

[email protected]

or PM me on this website. I am always happy to talk. and help in any way I can.

hang in their bro. you'll get thought this.

July 7, 2013

Thankyou for posting your story James. It really does show the light at the end of all this. I dont know for sure but am 90 % sure my ex was cheating on me. For a couple months too. She would never even let me say goodbye to her properly, I had to turn up at her house to give her a hug and say goodbye. The way she looked at me, like I was some monster, someone that was going to hurt her or something. That look in her eyes will haunt me forever. I would never hurt anyone (well only someone if they hurt her). Im rambling again, but im thankful I got to read your story, you sound very strong.

July 7, 2013

Thankyou for posting your story James. It really does show the light at the end of all this. I dont know for sure but am 90 % sure my ex was cheating on me. For a couple months too. She would never even let me say goodbye to her properly, I had to turn up at her house to give her a hug and say goodbye. The way she looked at me, like I was some monster, someone that was going to hurt her or something. That look in her eyes will haunt me forever. I would never hurt anyone (well only someone if they hurt her). Im rambling again, but im thankful I got to read your story, you sound very strong.

Your ex sounds like she is realizing how much she ****ed up and now feels bad about it. have no contact with her or anyone close to her. This will crush her, trust me. Then let her go and hit the club.

July 8, 2013

While I agree that holding onto infidelity and allowing it to erode on your life is extremely detrimental to for your emotional well-being, cheating didn't make you a better man. Had you not been the man you are and were, you wouldn't have gotten past the cheating.

Hopefully you also learned how to avoid women like the ex.

July 8, 2013

While I agree that holding onto infidelity and allowing it to erode on your life is extremely detrimental to for your emotional well-being, cheating didn't make you a better man. Had you not been the man you are and were, you wouldn't have gotten past the cheating.

Hopefully you also learned how to avoid women like the ex.

I left a lot of parts of this out, mainly because when writing parts of this I was still somewhat hesitant in even thinking about it. I am a well put together man, but trust me, any grown man who has learned to put his emotional guard down around a woman and had this happen to them will tell you somewhat the same thing. It is close to impossible you will ever be the same, I accepted that, I know this changed me and by far it has, but know that I see what I went trough and think back in how I cloud have done things different the only thing I can do now is use those thoughts in my new relationships to come.

ask any man who has been betrayed like this, they will (if they can) tell you that it not only devastated your ego and emotional self, but diminishes your trust for any women in your life and makes you question yourself, other and pretty much everything around you. I went thought all of that and came out of other end more learned and improved.

There came a point that I even had a feeling it was somewhat my fault that she cheated, I questions my whole world for this girl. After those thoughts faded I fell back down to reality and realized the truth, there was nothing I cloud do at this point. I let go and just lived life without questioning everything. I set goals and give 110% to achieve them. No am not the same person I was after those 6 mouths but I'm happy I'm not, I was a push over and a door mat to her, I let her get away with so much and never complained because I had this foolish idea in my head that, that was all life would be for me.

I'v been on over 60 Dates since my break-up and I know realize there is more to life then putting up with people. I use what I was taught in business school.

the salesmen motto.

The world is yours.

James Weber - Day trader, Job at NASDAQ and a summer home in Chicago.

Katelyn Mosey - 240 Pounds, Smoker, Studio Apartment In Ontario.

Yeah, I'm doing OK

July 8, 2013

Again I commend you on living your life well. Where I caution is that you're still competing against her, trying to prove you're the better man. In essence, you're still living your life with her in mind.

I too suffered infidelity in my first marriage so I get where you're coming from. Instead I moved on, found the most amazing man and subsequently remarried and now have two beautiful little toddlers.

It took a couple of years to get over the infidelity but one thing I learned is that I can and will survive and thrive. Even if it were to happen a second time which I greatly doubt, I have two beautiful boys from the experience.

July 8, 2013

I wonder how Kate is doing? Maybe she's lost all the weight is dating and attending college. Let's hope there's two happy stories

July 8, 2013

Again I commend you on living your life well. Where I caution is that you're still competing against her, trying to prove you're the better man. In essence, you're still living your life with her in mind.

I too suffered infidelity in my first marriage so I get where you're coming from. Instead I moved on, found the most amazing man and subsequently remarried and now have two beautiful little toddlers.

It took a couple of years to get over the infidelity but one thing I learned is that I can and will survive and thrive. Even if it were to happen a second time which I greatly doubt, I have two beautiful boys from the experience.

Are you kidding me? Your saying I should forget about her? Why would I ever do that?

I will always remember Kate, I forgave Kate but will never forget Kate, I will always

remember her,

Just like I remember my first boss at McDonald's who fired me when I was 17 and told me

I was a worthless brat who would never get anywhere in life.

Just like I remember my High school English teacher who told me I would never amount to

anything and I was bound to be a drop-out.

Just like I STILL remember my mom telling me I would be a bum and a failure my entire

life and wound never get anywhere in life.

And Just like I remember my Father abandoning me when I was 11 and never hearing from

him again,

I never forget anyone, especially those who chose to put me down, those who chose to step on me. I will never forget them, They are the reason why I am where I am. I made something out of my self

I proved them all wrong. All my life I was told I would be no one.

Well... Bitch, look at me now!

I'm 27, about to turn 28 and by the estimate of my net intake I can retire at 40 and never work a day in my life. I own a penthouse in Manhattan, New York.

I go out on dates 3x a week, I'v gotten in shape. And I have my dream job!

Soon I will be putting in my last payment for my Summer Home in my home town and Will be happier then ever, since I have always wanted a Summer Home in Chicago.

So no. I will never forget Kate, If it wasn't for her, I would still be living in a fairy tale dreamland where I was constantly taken advantage of and never respected.

I'm happy, and I hope Kate is happy, because if she's not, I won't be loosing any sleep over it.

*Muuuaahh!

July 8, 2013

I wonder how Kate is doing? Maybe she's lost all the weight is dating and attending college. Let's hope there's two happy stories

I hope so.

Edited July 8, 2013 by J.Webs

July 8, 2013

I for got to mention, I started to see someone. Her name is Amanda Cross, She's a friend of a co-worker and since I have started to date her, It's turning out better than any of past relationships. I have yet to view a flaw with her and we are yet to have our first argument.

We get along well and I honestly like having her around. I gotta say, this relationship is making up more then enough for my last train wreak of a relationship.

I will take it slow and take time with what I need, and consider her needs as well. Things are moving along nicely.

Some pics of me and Amanda.

http://i1360.photobucket.com/albums/r657/jwebber2000/DCS_0074824_zps315f4729.jpg?t=1373266399

http://i1360.photobucket.com/albums/r657/jwebber2000/DCS_0035452_zpse6305653.jpg?t=1373266414

http://i1360.photobucket.com/albums/r657/jwebber2000/DCS_0055644_zps6f77c414.jpg?t=1373266449

Thanks for reading!

July 8, 2013

What's with using the full names of the parties involved?

July 8, 2013

What's with using the full names of the parties involved?

What I not suppose to do that?

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