pobodysnerfect Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 I’m curious as to how I should feel about my situation. I’vebeen going out with this girl for about a month and a half now. We’re not official or anything but I’m hoping soon we will be. She has many different friends and often goes on big trips (she’s gone on two out of town trips sincewe started dating) so I understand that sometimes she won’t be able to go out. In the past month and a half we’ve probably seen each other about six or seven times.However, there have been a few incidents that have left me confused. First, early on in the relationship she said she would call me the next day after talking on the phone for a bit. She never called or texted. I expected a text the day after saying sorry or something along thoselines and never got it. I waited a few days and got ahold of her and we went out again shortly after that and had a great time. A few dates later she said I could come out to 80s night at a bar she goes to, and I said I’d text her if I could make it. I got out of work late that night and sent her a text a little before midnight. She never got back to me. Keep in mind we have met up at places around midnight before. Also this is the only instance of her not responding to me. And just recently I told her to come over to my apartment and hang out with me and my friends and we could grill and have a few beers and she said she’d love to. The day of it gets to around 7 pm and I haven’t heard from her so I sent her a text. She tells me she’s been up for over 24 hours (for work) and that it would be rough driving out there (she lives about 25 minutes from me). I told her that if she was tired she didn’t have to come out and it was okay. She didn’t text me anything back. Before I went to bed that night I get online and see that she posted about not having gotten any sleep in the past day but was still going strong at a bar right next to her house with some of her friends around midnight. That was a day ago and I haven't talked to her since. The times we have spent together have been amazing. We’ve been up till 6 or 7 in the morning talking. We’ve gotten physical but no sex yet. It’s clear to me she’s having a good time when we’re together and I’ve made it clear I enjoy spending time with her. So does anyone have any suggestions as to what is going on. Is it just a series of events where life got in the way? Am I reading too much into these things? Is she just kind of flaky?Am I just an option? Should I ignore these things or should I bring them up? Any opinions or advice would be appreciated.
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