Scale Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 (edited) For once I had a serious relationship with this girl after so many years of my life and it was LDR most time, but I found her amazing and wanted to give it shot (both of us did). We went on for 2 years and mutually broke up, she was crazy about me earlier and loved me a lot and it took time to reach the love stage. But now she has moved on and I'm finding it so hard to forget. I'm still in the foreign country but going back for good in September. We had promised that we would remain friends but a month and 10 days ago she said I cannot stay in touch with you at least for few months and that she cannot be friends no more. What hurts me most is that we always made plans to be together and now when we will finally be in the same city (I'm going back for good), I don't have the chance to show her how much I love her or show any of my feelings to her or spend time with her. This is so unfortunate and unlucky and she got emotional support from my friend and now she like him she last told me. I feel really bad that in 26 yrs of my life for once I got love and actually in a relationship and not just dates and I lost it. First she was leaving for abroad to study and then I did and I was in the most struggle some phase of my life with a lot problems and stress. We had just met before she was leaving. Edited July 7, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Nicoleiia Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 That is really sad. The only suggestion is go out and have a good time and meet people. Sitting home sulking won't do you any good. Unfortunately, these things happen about peoplehaving to move away. Try your best to move on and don't dwell on it. Its easier said than done, but you have to move on especially since seeing eachother is not really an option right now.
hoping2heal Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 Don't be so hard on yourself. It was your first serious relationship and rarely have I ever heard of anyone's first serious relationship working out in the long-term. It happens, but not very often. Relationships are a learning experience and you can't just read what to do and not do, you have to live through those things, make wrong decisions, see their outcome, and grow from there. You'll meet someone else in due time.
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