Mystic121 Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 I recently met a guy (we've been hanging out/seeing one another for almost 3 mos. now). We had sex (which we both enjoy), but he wants it everytime we spend time together. He told me he wants us to enjoy one another, and not rush or put pressure on things... Basically, no relationship. He told me not to overthink/overanalyze things. I understand it's early still, but I have a feeling he's just interested in sex. I've broken it off 3 times now, and keep going back, obviously. When I confronted him about being too interested in sex, he told me he's interested in other things too, and why not get to know one another as we're enjoying sex, because it feels great. Ugh. I feel like I'm being manipulated, but I could be overreacting. I really enjoy his company, but want something more than just a good time. Our connection just seems devoid of real meaning, even though it feels good to be together. I don't want to end it for good, but I may have to. Thoughts? Any input is much appreciated. I'm torn...
changed92 Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 It seems you have a strong feeling it's just about sex. So go with your gut, it's always right. It's just sex. Does he take you out? Or do you just hang out at his house and have sex? If he's not bringing you around his friends, and introducing you to his circle, and if you're never doing anything but each other, then yes... move on. If he only wants sex and you're ok with that then have some fun.
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