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Very insecure with breasts?

vness25

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vness25 New Member

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I hope I put this in the right section, I'm not too great with threads so I apologize in advance for that.

 

I'm 18 years old and have 32DD boobs. I just have natural big boobs because I'm 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs. I have the right size bras and everything. I lost like 20 lbs so I feel like that probs contributed to the sagginess. I feel awkward even posting about this but I've gotta get other peoples opinions on this because it's driving me crazy. I guess my biggest problem are my nipples. I don't think they point all the way down but if they were just an inch higher-(not even), I'd be totally content. They don't look straight ahead if you get what I'm saying but they also don't point straight down. They wouldn't look so saggy if it wasn't for the nipples...they definitely don't look like deflated balloons though lol, atleast I don't think so. I've had boyfriends before but I'm so insecure with myself that I'm afraid to even be with them because most guys my age when they hear 32DD...they think they look like the fake 32DD's...which they don't. I have a boyfriend now and I'm afraid he's going to dump me because they're probably not as perky as he wants them to be. Or he's going to hook up with me once and be like "bye!" and yes I understand if he does that then he's totally not worth it but that's just going to make me feel even worse. I've been OBSESSING about this so much for the past two weeks that I don't even know what I'm going to do when it comes time to see him. Does anyone have any advice? Am I totally going over-board on this? I feel like boobs are boobs and I would never ever dump a guy based on something so insignificant but people can be cruel.

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Phoe Established Member

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sounds like your breasts are closer to what "normal" breasts are supposed to look like! Don't let the media perception of perkiness distract you. Large breasts are supposed to have a natural weight and drop to them, not pertly bolted high up on the chest with nipples that stand at attention! lol.

 

Love them! Be proud of them!

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sounds like your breasts are closer to what "normal" breasts are supposed to look like! Don't let the media perception of perkiness distract you. Large breasts are supposed to have a natural weight and drop to them, not pertly bolted high up on the chest with nipples that stand at attention! lol.

 

Lies!!! LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek:

 

 

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whichwayisup Established Member

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No guy is going dump you over you boobs. Many men love big boobs.

 

Try not to feel self conscious..

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you're beautiful just the way you are...natural is the only way to go.

 

no seriously, I wouldn't even give it a second thought...no man will even meet your level of subconscious about them, and will do nothing but smile :)

 

if any guy even had the audacity to comment negatively, he's a boy, not a man and not worth your time anyway

Ed the 3rd Established Member

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Trust me. Most guys certainly don't mind :)

 

I personally don't like the torpedo look some breasts have.

Babolat Established Member

Babolat

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Past 2 gfs had implants and I cannot wait for the next "natural" girl! Not even sure I remember what natural breasts feel like. If he is a breast man, trust me, he will be delighted!

 

I was watching a modeling show the other day and the photographer was trying to show the girl how to make her big natural breasts look perkier. I remember him saying "before implants here is what we use to do" and he had the girl do something with her hands to make her natural breasts look perkier. The "before implants" comment stuck with me.

jlola Established Member

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I was in your shoes when I was 18. Very thin almost 5'9" 127lbs and very large breast. also self conscious because I thought they had to look perfect like the air brushed pictures. I thought all breast were perfect but mine and men would be turned off when they saw them.

 

I would try to squeeze myself into 34DD's which were way too small they were that big.

 

Guess what? I had a breast reduction and regret it so much. Though the scars can barely be seen, and the nipples are high, I realize I was trying to conform to perfection which does not exist.

 

Also, I hated,hated the attention they got because I was insecure. Other women would "hint" men only liked me for my breast. I guess part of me wanted to prove them wrong.

 

Anyway, all I have to say is NOONE cares if they sag!!!! They are beautiful. I wish everyday, I kept what God gave me. Believe me, you will be happy with your breast in a few years.

 

I was reading an article on Sophia Vegara and she too was self conscious of her big breast. Now she loves them.

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SmithJ Established Member

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I've got small boobs...(well, a good handful!) and I was paranoid about it for years, literally never wanted to take off my bra in front of anyone but my ex boyfriend loved them!!! and it made me realize, big or small, men love boobs!!!! I do have a big bum though and my ex loved that too!!

 

You need to love yourself because things like that just don't matter to the opposite sex. A boobs a boob :)

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