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How funny it is that when girl breaks up and turns single, there are several guys hitting on her but when a guy breaks up there is nobody trying to be friends also with him.

 

The girl moves on even though having been in love with the guy and crazy about him and now all the love disappears while the guy is still holding on to that love and the girl. How can girls just move on so soon, after having loved or be crazy about some one ?

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Yeah. That's why 2 weeks on, I'm sitting alone on a Saturday night and he's already met someone else.

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Yep, that's why I was Single for 6 years with only 3 date offers in that time. :rolleyes:

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How can girls just move on so soon, after having loved or be crazy about some one ?

Probably has something to do with the several guys hitting on her.

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Yep, that's why I was Single for 6 years with only 3 date offers in that time. :rolleyes:

 

I'm sorry to hear that Phoe but if I had met you then, I would certainly ask you out for a date and would love to simply know you to start with. Usually, the trend is the other way.

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Yeah. That's why 2 weeks on, I'm sitting alone on a Saturday night and he's already met someone else.

 

Im sorry to hear that but I was referring to a serious relationship. May be it wasn't so between you guys.

Im not from the US and wherever Ive been and talked with girls, I found them to be not open to foreigners unless you are in very big cities like NYC, Chicago or Cali

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Yeah. That's why 2 weeks on, I'm sitting alone on a Saturday night and he's already met someone else.

Why don't you go out at least with few friends to get yourself diverted, you will enjoy it. Give it a chance, dress up sexy and somebody will walk up to you.

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Yep, that's why I was Single for 6 years with only 3 date offers in that time. :rolleyes:

 

 

Uh, how is that even possible lol? :cool:

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Uh, how is that even possible lol? :cool:

 

How is it not possible? :confused:

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He was trying to pay you a compliment. I'd have done the same if he hadn't beat me to it. Pout.

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Yep, that's why I was Single for 6 years with only 3 date offers in that time. :rolleyes:

 

You available now? :cool:

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You available now? :cool:

 

Yep. Likely will be until I learn to approach guys! :o

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Yep. Likely will be until I learn to approach guys! :o

Well you don't need to learn that, guys must know how to approach you Phoe!

Here you go see how many guys hitting on you !! get the point

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Go girl!!! :D See? You have 3 guys wanting to date you! Loveshack is the next Match.com ;)

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Well you don't need to learn that, guys must know how to approach you Phoe!

Here you go see how many guys hitting on you !! get the point

 

sure, plenty of guys here say I'm attractive and that they'd approach me if they saw me in real life, but I don't really believe that, they'd pass me by like every other guy.

 

 

It's nice though, that people here do have such kind thoughts towards me, I always appreciate the niceness. :)

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Go girl!!! :D See? You have 3 guys wanting to date you! Loveshack is the next Match.com ;)

 

Hehe, if only a single one of them was within 1000 miles of me, I'd be set! :p:p

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sure, plenty of guys here say I'm attractive and that they'd approach me if they saw me in real life, but I don't really believe that, they'd pass me by like every other guy.

 

 

It's nice though, that people here do have such kind thoughts towards me, I always appreciate the niceness. :)

 

Maybe your body language comes off as cold and standoffish instead of friendly and inviting. I do find it impossible that you've only been asked out or approached three times in six years. I'm guessing there are some undesirables that you are conveniently forgetting.

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Maybe your body language comes off as cold and standoffish instead of friendly and inviting. I do find it impossible that you've only been asked out or approached three times in six years. I'm guessing there are some undesirables that you are conveniently forgetting.

 

I consider myself a friendly and outgoing person. I'm a bit nerdy and geeky which I think makes guys friendzone me, but I'm not cold at all! I don't have it in me...

 

 

Nope, not forgetting any "undesirables", but I did forget about the guy who approached me when I was already dating someone. Since I don't multidate I had to sadly decline. But out of the other 3, I rejected one because he asked me out in a really creepy way and tried to play games to "trick" me into it. The other 2 I dated and nothing came of it. So I've only ever rejected 2 guys. Any normal guy who approached me in a genuine way would be received kindly.

 

 

I just don't get approached *shrug* which I why I need to learn how to do the approaching myself. The handful of approaches I tried in the past ended in rejection so I'm clearly doing it wrong lol

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If your'e attractive a lot of guys won't approach you. Some guys might think they are out of your league and think they won't get anywhere.

 

I have a lot of mates who refuse to talk to a girl unless they think they have a chance. No one likes rejection I guess

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I'm not trying to be a douche, but maybe that photo of you isn't an accurate representation of what you look like? My rule of thumb on POF used to be, if they only have 1 picture, regardless of how good it looked, I wasn't messaging. This is b/c it's amazing how people can improve their physical attractiveness by several points with the right shot.

 

Again, not trying to be a d*ck, or call you out. But if that picture IS essentially how you look, I don't believe you've only been hit on a handful of times in years, let alone months, unless you're a hermit or in a very remote tiny town. :confused:

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Well maybe I'm the exception to the rule, but I don't usually just get over it fast and forget all that love. There were a few times where I have, but I also wasn't in love with them. My breakup was only 3 weeks ago, and I have had a few guys asking me out, but I was truly in love with my ex, so I am in no way ready to just move on with another guy. In time, I'm sure it will happen though :)

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I would ask you out myself. I like geeky women

 

Woohoo!! +1 for the nerdy ladies :D

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Hehe, if only a single one of them was within 1000 miles of me, I'd be set! :p:p

 

Where do you live? Alaska??

 

I'm in the dc area...

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How funny it is that when girl breaks up and turns single, there are several guys hitting on her but when a guy breaks up there is nobody trying to be friends also with him.

 

The girl moves on even though having been in love with the guy and crazy about him and now all the love disappears while the guy is still holding on to that love and the girl. How can girls just move on so soon, after having loved or be crazy about some one ?

 

Hardly.

 

Mine must all be sitting at home, whining about girls being so lucky. Ugh, if they have the attitudes displayed towards women on this forum a lot of the time, then they can stay there.

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Maybe your body language comes off as cold and standoffish instead of friendly and inviting. I do find it impossible that you've only been asked out or approached three times in six years. I'm guessing there are some undesirables that you are conveniently forgetting.

 

You could say the exact same thing to the men around here.

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