Gomonko Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 (edited) Basically I met this woman through some friends around a year ago or so, I just briefly said hello and got out of there because it was really awkward and she was really shy and quiet and I just didn't like the atmosphere. We later spoke a bit online but the conversations died out quickly. A good 7 - 8 months later (only rough) she makes contact again and we speak briefly, she suggested we should go out sometime, I kindly reject her with some excuses and I just carry on with my day to day life. Eventually I go to meet some friends at the pub and she is also there, she seems to light up and instantly greets me with a hug, I didn't think too much of it as I hadn't seen her for a while. Anyway eventually she drags me away to dance with her and the night goes pretty good and I guess I was surprised by how much different she is compared to when I last saw her (Really quiet and didn't really talk much). Since then we have spoken pretty much every day online, and things first started to feel strange when she started making plans for us to go places, we then got talking about holidays, and I mentioned somewhere I would like to go, she replied saying "we should go there sometime"..., she also tried to invite herself along to a function I was going too... this is when I thought she might like me more than a friend? A week ago we went to a concert and she was really quiet and hardly spoke (It was just the two of us), I made the best of the situation and made the majority of the conversation (she replied and laughed and smiled a lot...) and made sure I enjoyed myself regardless... I noticed some body language such as playing with her hair and jewelry after we had touched or I had put my arm around her and asked her if she was okay etc but I don't really know much about observing body language or what it's meant to show... either way that evening she spoke to me more online that evening than she did at the entire concert, another thing I noticed is that she seems to be deliberately delaying her reply's to me when we talk over private message??? I guess what I really want to know is what does this all mean? Is she interested in me as more than a friend or is she just being unique? I guess I have changed my opinion on her and wouldn't mind having a relationship with her, but all these games have started to put me off her as well, and yeah I would ask her how she feels but just worried she would lie or it would destroy our friendship. Edited July 6, 2013 by Gomonko
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