Long distance BBM-mate who wants me to be his girlfriend

[WinteBlows]

After I post my BBM pin in the internet i received a lot of contact invitations from people living in different countries, and he is one of them. Well, he apparently lived and migrated in Canada for about 3 years now but he is a Filipino just like me, actually born and raised. We became close but not really. We often send msg to each other everyday. But then suspected, him as a gay since i saw his playlist on his bbm status, his songs are so gay. I asked him if he's a gay, he denied it then asked me if i can Be his girlfriend. I am single for about 3years and actually looking for someone, but long distance, I really don't know if I can handle this. So i told him that I can't be. Still we exchanged msg everyday for about 2weeks now but it feels like forever.

 

Tonight he asked Again if I can be his girlfriend, i reject him again. But tonight is different. I want him to still be there. I've been alone for 3years and already asking God to give me boyfriend. What if he is the one I am praying for? And then I just let him go. i am in this dillema. I want him to be still there and court me but how can I say that if I already reject him twice?

 

Any advice?

[CherryT]

After I post my BBM pin in the internet i received a lot of contact invitations from people living in different countries, and he is one of them. Well, he apparently lived and migrated in Canada for about 3 years now but he is a Filipino just like me, actually born and raised. We became close but not really. We often send msg to each other everyday. But then suspected, him as a gay since i saw his playlist on his bbm status, his songs are so gay. I asked him if he's a gay, he denied it then asked me if i can Be his girlfriend. I am single for about 3years and actually looking for someone, but long distance, I really don't know if I can handle this. So i told him that I can't be. Still we exchanged msg everyday for about 2weeks now but it feels like forever.

 

Tonight he asked Again if I can be his girlfriend, i reject him again. But tonight is different. I want him to still be there. I've been alone for 3years and already asking God to give me boyfriend. What if he is the one I am praying for? And then I just let him go. i am in this dillema. I want him to be still there and court me but how can I say that if I already reject him twice?

 

Any advice?

 

You already rejected him more than once. In your gut, you know there is no chemistry outside of just being friends. You enjoy the attention because you're looking for a boyfriend and is trying to convince yourself that you could like him. But you just don't.

 

Long distance is way too difficult and challenging for those who have a weak relationship. I would work on feeling comfortable being on your own. Know what it is you want in a man and when you feel good about being alone (which is a great feeling) you won't settle.

[Tinie]

Please don't be a hopeless desperado and simply jump on this guy because he's available.

 

I know it feels lonely sometimes when you're single, but you clearly don't want this guy if you've rejected him twice. Don't be with him for the sake of being in a relationship.

[FitChick]

He's a fat, gay guy living far away?