banksy2020 Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Ok there is this girl I was really into, but she used to date one of my friends awhile ago. She is still into him and he is not but he said he did not care if I went for her. The girl and I started hanging out and she seemed flirty and we always had a good time hanging out. I finally gathered the courage to ask her out on a date to which she replied you and awesome guy but you are friends with my ex and I cannot do that. My question is was that I cop out and she was just politely telling me I am not interested or could that be the legitimate answer
The fire rises Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 It could be both, that she isn't interested and she doesn't want to see you because she used to date your friend, or it could be one or the other, or it could be something else. This next bit may sound harsh, but the point here is she doesn't want to date you so don't waste energy on it. I see you said you were really into her, but the best thing to do is to take her response and move on to trying to find someone who does want to date you. It's like standing outside someone's front door after they've closed it in front of you, you're not welcome in so you're doing yourself no favours staring at the door wondering why they closed it, so get out of there and find someone who will welcome you in.
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