Nyclovin Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 2 months after it happened how can I reconcile the fact that after 4 years of living with her I saw her as my wife to be and the rest of my life would be with her when in fact she instead packed my stuff asked me to leave and told me people grow apart and she didn't love me "like that". And this came out if no where . How do I really push past this . I'm so exhausted of the tears .
SimonSerenade Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 I know how you feel man, focus on all the reasons why you deserve better than a woman with this sort of mindset, clearly she lacks emotional maturity and wouldn't last 10 minutes inside a marriage, I loved my ex, at times in my life when I needed her, she was so supportive as I drank through the pain, at least I think she was, who knew, I'd probably passed out by then, women like this ain't worth the salt in your eyes and one day you'll realise it, when you do you will move on and appreciate your next lover even more so because of it.
Author Nyclovin Posted July 6, 2013 Author Posted July 6, 2013 I wish what you are saying was true. I feel she posses all the right attributes to be a perfect Gf wife mother etc . She just dosent want that at all with me. She made that clear as she asked me to leave . How can I he passes that ?
SimonSerenade Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Well she can't of possessed all that for you if she could tell you to leave like that but at least you know what you want, I know it's hard but one day you will find all that again and maybe it'll work out the next time round, look to the future and whoever it may hold, personally women who leave like that are most likely the ones to live in regret and come back, don't want to get your hopes up and have you hanging round but it's possible, right now you should be building yourself up into something a woman would love and adore and above all that, feeling that way about yourself.
Author Nyclovin Posted July 6, 2013 Author Posted July 6, 2013 Of course the exact thing you say to do is the hardest part... When you think up about it, her leaving for no good reason was a huge tear down of my esteem, confidence and belief in good things. She hasn't even bothered to text or call in close to 2 months now, except to say m stuff is with the doorman to be picked up. She did a real number on me and it doesn't help that I wasn't doing all that well psychologically before she left and while I thought she left me. Hard to think that she saw this coming and gave me no preparation. I hate her for that. For leaving.... Sometimes I don't blame her...
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