voels Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Seven months ago, I met a woman in a birthday party. She claimed she was single. As it turned out, she was in a relationship with a married man. He was physically abusive, financially unstable. Their relationship started 8 years ago. He slapped her when he found out about me. I went to a business trip for 3 weeks, she met her MM while I was away and had a bad quarrel. The MM begged and plead her. I didn't know this until I accidentally logged-in into FB, just few weeks before marriage. My sweet shy innocent-looking wife isn't what she seems to be. She was vulgar, and sexually active with MM. I found her credit-card statement, they checked-in into a cheap hotel to do their business (September 2012). She's in financial mess, no medical insurance, no savings. She came from a poor family. I am now fixing his financial issue, including clearing her credit-card debts in which was used by the MM too. She shows no sign of emotional unstability. Her father left her since she was little, and lived with her verbally abusive step father. She lost her V card with some guy in a rock band or something. We went to the same college for a year. She said she fall in love with me, and if she came clean from day one, I'd throw her in a flash. She was looking for a way out. She said she has no way to leave him, no exit plan. She didn't plan to cheat anyone. She said I suddenly came into her life and she fall for me. It's a good way to leave all the mess. I asked, why she didn't leave sooner. She tried, but she was involved with another married man too! She didn't knew it, so she left the relationship and get back to him. She's very much in love with me, and I love her. But I feel cheated, and not comfortable with her promiscuous past. Obviously, her morality is questionable. What do I do?
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