Ashlaria Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 So I have been reading the posts on here and it occurs to me that we all spend way too much time focusing on our exs. Do you think he/she is sitting around wondering where it all went wrong? Thinking 'if only I'd done more of this or less of that'? No, they are out living their lives. I have had a few relationships in my time and I know for a fact that each one ends to make way for the next one. It might not look like it and I can almost guarantee it doesn't feel like it, but I promise you, there is someone better out there for you. So instead of wondering where it went wrong, pick yourself up and look forward to the next person who makes you smile when no one else can, who makes your heart sing when they hold your hand, whose text brightens up your day because they are there, somewhere, just walking around not even realising how important they are going to be to you. They say the best revenge is a life lived well, lets all try that, after all, anything has got to be better than this! 5
Appleness Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Yep, I totally agree. I'd just like to add that the funny thing is you first off saying "I'm live better. You'll see! I"ll show you how much happier I can be without you!" Then after you've dated others, maybe even found someone else or gotten all your ***** together you see them and they act all impressed, you just shrug. Not because you lost sight of revenge and the desire to rub it in but more because at that point you don't remember why they were significant to begin with. It's a weird feeling personally.
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