bcm235 Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 I am dreading work on monday morning as i am worried i may have upset and/or made things awkward for me and a coworker. I have fancied the pants off this girl at work for a while now. She is a good friend we often lunch together and socialise as a group maybe once a month. She has a boyfriend and a few of us have been to dinner in occassion at their place. He seems like a decent guy. So last night im playing with facebook on my new uber sensitive keypad phone and found myself wandering to her page. Im flicking through some photos and stump across a hot one of her on a beach in a bikini from a few years back. Next thing i know ive hit like with my finger. I frantacly spend the next minute working out how to unlike which i do. I have since discovered you still get a notification if you unlike something which will mean she will know. Feel so awkward. Her boyfriend is really techy so if she mentions it he will prob know. Shes away at his parents for the weekend which means if she does pick it up on her phone she may keep it to herself. We only have 8 more days working together as she is moving abroad however she is having a leaving party where her bf will be and i have a 9am meeting monday morning with her. I guess im just gna have to play it cool and act like nothing happened and hope she doesnt raise it. Feel very foolish
todreaminblue Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 if she does bring it up ...which if it were me i wouldnt...chances are she wont bring it up at all.... but if she does say look i thought you looked really pretty in the photo but i didnt think it was appropriate for me to like the photo seeing you are in a relationship...then if she continues to ask why you were stalking her photos from years ago...say sorry and claim you need to go to the toilet..........thats the best i got......smilin doubt she will bring it up i wish you luck....deb 1
TaraMaiden Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 quit fretting. Act normal and when she moves abroad, delete/block de-friend her off FB. Sorted. NEXT!! 2
TaraMaiden Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 you sound like somone with a dirty mind and intention. like fancy her pants?? like her almost nude pics? i hope she realice this and distance from you. WOW. Judgemental, much? jeesh, it's no big deal....! 3
PlumPrincess Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Girls who put up pictures of themselves in a bikini expect guys to hit like. You didn't really do anything unusual. 4
eleve82 Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 I completely agree with Plum Princess. If she didn't want people gawking at her, would she put up a picture of her in a bikini??! DOH!
ChasingCars Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 ^^ Exactly. Even if you liked it and left the like there- still not a big deal. You're over thinking it. If you liked it to flirt with her- random spontaneous whoops- and are regretting it now then that is what has your wheels spinning. She can't read your mind and doesn't know what's going on in your head and liking a FB picture hasn't given you away- as long as that's all you have done. A pattern will though.
Col1 Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 She's busy packing and preparing for a life abroad. Plenty of other things she's preoccupied with.
Phoe Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 you sound like somone with a dirty mind and intention. like fancy her pants?? like her almost nude pics? i hope she realice this and distance from you. "fancy the pants off" a girl is just an expression. 2
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