youcanever Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Yes, she is moving on brahs. She seem like she is doing awesome. Meeting friends, working, studying, extending her friend circle. But why I can't? How come someone be so happy on the other hand other person fights with depression? I love her and I miss her so damn much and I resisted so hard not to write her yesterday, also resisting hard not to write her now too ! Broke up with me 5 weeks ago and told me not to contact her. Then I kept promise and 3 weeks NC and she calls, we talk. Then I told her not to contact me. And 2 weeks NC more from me. I want her, but I'm such a mess right now. I can't take it seriously. I just can't take the idea that she is moving on and forgetting about me. I'm creeping on her whatsapp every morning, just to see when she was lastseen on whatsapp. And lastnight it was 3.30 before that 1.30 and mostly it is near 2.30.. Who is she talking that late at night? That is bothering me so much. And making me crazy. Why I can't just move the **** on? WTF is wrong with me?
Hoaks Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Im no expert and am going through my own hell right now. But one thing I have made sure I did was remove any means of finding out what my ex is up to. It sucks, and I know how tempting it can be, but for your own peace of mind. Delete, remove any means of seeing what she is up to. I read a few of your other threads, let her maybe start wondering what you are up to. 3
Author youcanever Posted July 6, 2013 Author Posted July 6, 2013 Im no expert and am going through my own hell right now. But one thing I have made sure I did was remove any means of finding out what my ex is up to. It sucks, and I know how tempting it can be, but for your own peace of mind. Delete, remove any means of seeing what she is up to. I read a few of your other threads, let her maybe start wondering what you are up to. That is the general idea about moving on. I am so hardcore creeping on her. I really need to stop it. I mean, I am creeping so hardcore that I'm not only checking her instagram or facebook or twitter, I also check her "last seen" time on whatapp every hour. That is just crazy. I'm even started creeping on her friends' social medias too. It just doesn't stop.
Sneaky Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Well that's why you're not moving on. How can you let go if you spend every hour checking on her? You need to avoid all these sites for a while maybe even delete your account for the time being and start filling your time with other things. 2
Appleness Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 (edited) The next time she calls, don't pick up. What you're doing right now is no different then someone who is fighting a drug addiction. You keep saying that you want to stop smoking crack but you drive by all your old dealer spots and watch people buying the drugs (stalking her facebook, whatsapp, instagram, whatever). If you are truly interested in moving on, then MOVE ON! Cold turkey, no stalking, no talking to mutual friends, no looking at pictures, no thinking about her, no wondering what she's doing, NOTHING. (well, you can keep posting and venting here 'cause we don't know who you are and we're not gonna judge you for the most part). For me personally, when I was getting over my ex, I hit the gym. There were days when I would be there for hours. And I would mentally work in images of getting away from him. When I was on the treadmill, I visualized running away from him. When I did weights, the sound of the weights falling back were a pile of bricks falling on his head. You can work your own creativity in on this part. If your ex has decided to move on, take it from another woman: her mind is set. There's nothing you, your friends, her family, or even Jesus can do at this point to make her change her mind. She is the only one that do and it's when she wants to. All you can do is work on yourself and try to maintain your sanity. Good luck. Edited July 6, 2013 by Appleness 4
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