aliceee_e Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 It's been about 3 months already that I've been dating the same guy. Everything is great except for the fact we never really see each other! The first month we met/dated we would hang out almost every weekend (friday & saturday). He doesn't have a car and neither do I. My closest friends don't have cars neither lol and only 2 of his close friends have a car. Because of this when we hanged out , we would all hang out together (his friends and my closest friend). After our first month of "dating" if u can even call it that lol he left for a month to another state to visit his family since the university semester finished and I went back home. The two of us returned for the summer and in 4 weeks we have only seen each other 3 times!!! His best friend is gone for the whole summer and he was the one of the car, and the other one leaves every weekend. I get tired of never seeing him, we text everyday. He is mainly the one initiating the texting, but I get tired of just texting and not seeing him when we go to same university and live 10 minutes away from each other! We cannot go to each other's apartments because we both live with our sisters and in his culture he is not allowed to be dating, and I don't have permission from my parents. For the university he goes in really early and I go in late, so our schedules don't match.
Author aliceee_e Posted July 6, 2013 Author Posted July 6, 2013 I haven't dated other guys, but I think I should cause I feel i'm wasting my time with someone I rarely see. He isn't dating anyone else (I think) and this holds me back from dating another guy. What should I do??? I'll appreciate ya'll input/advice
ExpatInItaly Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 It's been about 3 months already that I've been dating the same guy. Everything is great except for the fact we never really see each other! The first month we met/dated we would hang out almost every weekend (friday & saturday). He doesn't have a car and neither do I. My closest friends don't have cars neither lol and only 2 of his close friends have a car. Because of this when we hanged out , we would all hang out together (his friends and my closest friend). After our first month of "dating" if u can even call it that lol he left for a month to another state to visit his family since the university semester finished and I went back home. The two of us returned for the summer and in 4 weeks we have only seen each other 3 times!!! His best friend is gone for the whole summer and he was the one of the car, and the other one leaves every weekend. I get tired of never seeing him, we text everyday. He is mainly the one initiating the texting, but I get tired of just texting and not seeing him when we go to same university and live 10 minutes away from each other! We cannot go to each other's apartments because we both live with our sisters and in his culture he is not allowed to be dating, and I don't have permission from my parents. For the university he goes in really early and I go in late, so our schedules don't match. Can you not arrange to meet after his classes/before yours? Or do yours begin while he is still in class? Also, if you only live 10 minutes apart, are there no public transport options available?
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