sadangle Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 So i was dating this guy for short amount of time but we were going very strong . Everything was just great..We were so compitable . But one day out of blue , he told me he lost interest in me and doesnt want to date me. he had commitment issue , never wanted to get into relationship. I was hurt but respected his feeligs and accepted his friendship offer. Friendship wasnt easy but we kinda manged for 2 months . Last week he was on vacation , i just texted him saying " hey , i hope you are enjoying your trip " he ignored for whole day , i know he came online but didnt answer. So i waited but next days i kinda lost patience and told him " i dont know why you ignoring me , but i just wanted to know how are you? "The next moment he got pissed and deleted me from his facebook etc. He told me he is no longer interested being my friends and he is done.I was so devastated . I mean i wasnt happiest while being his friends but i didnt wanted to loose him completely like this. every day for sometime i feel down and wish he will ever understand me. i want to contact him but i wont do that because its not my fault. I love my self respect. do you guys think will he ever miss me or try to contact me ? Please help me ..
bafflio Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 So i was dating this guy for short amount of time but we were going very strong . Everything was just great..We were so compitable . But one day out of blue , he told me he lost interest in me and doesnt want to date me. he had commitment issue , never wanted to get into relationship. I was hurt but respected his feeligs and accepted his friendship offer. Friendship wasnt easy but we kinda manged for 2 months . Last week he was on vacation , i just texted him saying " hey , i hope you are enjoying your trip " he ignored for whole day , i know he came online but didnt answer. So i waited but next days i kinda lost patience and told him " i dont know why you ignoring me , but i just wanted to know how are you? "The next moment he got pissed and deleted me from his facebook etc. He told me he is no longer interested being my friends and he is done.I was so devastated . I mean i wasnt happiest while being his friends but i didnt wanted to loose him completely like this. every day for sometime i feel down and wish he will ever understand me. i want to contact him but i wont do that because its not my fault. I love my self respect. do you guys think will he ever miss me or try to contact me ? Please help me .. I'm very sorry and it's probably not the answer you are looking for - but you should move on. I don't know how or why he lost interest in you but that's that. It sounds like he hasn't been very open about this decline of his interest and thus hasn't given you enough time or opportunity to try. Sounds like he met someone he just found more interesting and moved on (please pardon my blind guess but I had to hazard one). If you must insist in getting his interest back, however, the best way is to at least 'show' that you've moved on and focus on your life and stay strong. There are two benefits here. First you give the image that you are strong enough to overcome him and that'll get his attention. It's human nature to avoid people who cling. On the other hand, he wouldn't be able to help himself from thinking about how you're doing. If you're doing well with him gone, he'd feel intrigued - maybe it was him who was wrong. Also, look beyond him and try to see if there are any good men out there. You must look to find one. Rarely do you find a prince on the horse coming for you.
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