Eternal Sunshine Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 I thought this thread was gonna be "I have decided to make a woman wait when it comes to sex" I gonna post this I thought the same thing. It was such a letdown when I saw the thread 2
Woggle Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 I rarely ever spent more than 20 dollars on a date when I was single and many times I didn't spend a dime. Didn't hurt me at all. When I am in a relationship with a woman she gets treated but during the trial stage which is what the first few dates I don't invest much.
thefooloftheyear Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 I dunno... Im old school in that I think the guy should pay...I have means .If she offers to cover her plate, I let her..Its fine. I like to think a date should be about having fun and enjoying the company. If you are going to go out to dinner Id pick a nice place and not worry about the money. Its not about trying to impress, just that its not much fun or romantic to go out to a place like the Red Lobster or Denny's:laugh: If it doesnt work out, so what? If you dont want to spend the money, go to a park or some other venue.. If I was a woman and a guy took me to a Chinese Buffet, Red Lobster or some other type of place of thet ilk. Id be gone... TFY
AlliceInWL Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 (edited) There are for real? Yep! I know this because I am one of them! I got really attached to a guy (he ended up not feeling the same way about me) who didn't [directly] spend ANY money on our first few dates. We lived an hour from each other, so on our first date, I met him in his town and we drove around for hours getting to know each other. The second time I saw him, he came to my town and we spent a few hours at a river. For our third date, I invited him to an event and paid for our tickets. I have an issue with "smooth" guys. I don't want to know how good they can treat me when they're trying to have sex with me. I want to know who they are - how they're going to treat me a year or more from now. When I meet a guy and know that he's being genuine with no ulterior motives, there's nothing else like it. That's when my heart starts to open to them. I live in the country, so I feel like cheap dates are easier here. But why not just get some coffee on the first date? You don't need to spend a ton on a nice dinner for someone you don't even know. Save that for the special one. Edited July 6, 2013 by AlliceInWL
Author joystickd Posted July 6, 2013 Author Posted July 6, 2013 I thought the same thing. It was such a letdown when I saw the thread I thought about it but I couldn't give a humorous take to it
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