dagummybear Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 There's this guy I met way back in my last year of high school. Back then, we were pretty close, we talked a lot and we worked on our assignments together. He's a shy type of guy, doesn't like to talk much and never expressed his feelings. Yet, when he was with me, he seemed to show his feelings to me (he giggled whenever i was being stupid lol). My friends even caught him staring at me very frequently in the hallways during lunch, and he even went to my class just to sit there when he actually dropped that course long ago. When all these clues summed up together, my friends said....he seemed that he had some feelings for me? Everything was working out great till this day came up. It was the last day of high school, and to be honest, after all those "interactions" with him, i just gotta admit that i really did have some feeling for him and I'm pretty sure that he knows about it too (sometimes he caught me staring at him too). On that day, I was going to confront him but before that, I saw him...he walked right pass me..and he even pretended he never knew me?! And on the same day, he even unfriended me on facebook+msn. From that day onwards, I tried my very best to forget about this person and move on, but it never seemed to work. I thought the time he unfriended me on facebook, everything was officially over. But.....what happened was...he blocked me...then unblocked...then deactivate his fb...reactivate it...blocked...unblocked...etc...he kept on doing this for 3 whole years! Meanwhile, he even made another facebook to add me as a friend and sent me a relationship request on there?! I was so confused....so few months later, I decided to text him and tried to talk things out. But it didn't work out...all he replied me was: f*ck off, leave me alone, i never liked you :'( From that day onwards, I tried again...to move on...but at the same time...he was still doing the facebook-block/unblock thingy. One year later, we met again...on campus. And that's also when he stopped doing the facebook thing. The first time we bumped into each other, we stared at each other for almost a minute...then i decided to walk again (the time i was walking away, i realized...i still have something for him this is the first time...i called myself a loser). Then, i started sitting in his class...he saw me there. And one time, my best friend sat right next to him in the lecture, and i sat right next to that friend (so he was one person away from me). During the lecture, he was shivering the entire time?!! Was he seriously that scared of me? WHY? :'( From there, I still couldn't let go yet...i wanted to talk to him so i even got on the same bus as him..and before i got off the bus..i tapped his shoulder and was going to say "hi". But what happened was....i tapped him, then he said "what", turned his head 1/2 way to me...and frowned. He said "what" two times, and that just totally killed me!!! The way he frowned at me...its like he was trying to tell me how much he hated me now? :'( Last month, my best friend happened to be on the same bus as him...and they talked....about me! He asked my friend why i was always following him, and he also mentioned how he couldn't find my name on the class's mailing list/at the exams Was he trying to find out something? And out of nowhere, he mentioned my name again in their convo...linking me with this other guy from the same high school -,- And in the same week, he redid the facebook thingy by deactivating and reactivating fb (note: he could no longer block me on fb anymore...coz i closed "that" facebook down) Is he trying to restart something? I'm confused....and lost. I really dunno what he's trying to do and what I should do anything. And i think...up to this point, i'm having something for him...still. Please help and thanks in advance.
SadHumiliated Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 There's this guy I met way back in my last year of high school. Back then, we were pretty close, we talked a lot and we worked on our assignments together. He's a shy type of guy, doesn't like to talk much and never expressed his feelings. Yet, when he was with me, he seemed to show his feelings to me (he giggled whenever i was being stupid lol). My friends even caught him staring at me very frequently in the hallways during lunch, and he even went to my class just to sit there when he actually dropped that course long ago. When all these clues summed up together, my friends said....he seemed that he had some feelings for me? Everything was working out great till this day came up. It was the last day of high school, and to be honest, after all those "interactions" with him, i just gotta admit that i really did have some feeling for him and I'm pretty sure that he knows about it too (sometimes he caught me staring at him too). On that day, I was going to confront him but before that, I saw him...he walked right pass me..and he even pretended he never knew me?! And on the same day, he even unfriended me on facebook+msn. From that day onwards, I tried my very best to forget about this person and move on, but it never seemed to work. I thought the time he unfriended me on facebook, everything was officially over. But.....what happened was...he blocked me...then unblocked...then deactivate his fb...reactivate it...blocked...unblocked...etc...he kept on doing this for 3 whole years! Meanwhile, he even made another facebook to add me as a friend and sent me a relationship request on there?! I was so confused....so few months later, I decided to text him and tried to talk things out. But it didn't work out...all he replied me was: f*ck off, leave me alone, i never liked you :'( From that day onwards, I tried again...to move on...but at the same time...he was still doing the facebook-block/unblock thingy. One year later, we met again...on campus. And that's also when he stopped doing the facebook thing. The first time we bumped into each other, we stared at each other for almost a minute...then i decided to walk again (the time i was walking away, i realized...i still have something for him this is the first time...i called myself a loser). Then, i started sitting in his class...he saw me there. And one time, my best friend sat right next to him in the lecture, and i sat right next to that friend (so he was one person away from me). During the lecture, he was shivering the entire time?!! Was he seriously that scared of me? WHY? :'( From there, I still couldn't let go yet...i wanted to talk to him so i even got on the same bus as him..and before i got off the bus..i tapped his shoulder and was going to say "hi". But what happened was....i tapped him, then he said "what", turned his head 1/2 way to me...and frowned. He said "what" two times, and that just totally killed me!!! The way he frowned at me...its like he was trying to tell me how much he hated me now? :'( Last month, my best friend happened to be on the same bus as him...and they talked....about me! He asked my friend why i was always following him, and he also mentioned how he couldn't find my name on the class's mailing list/at the exams Was he trying to find out something? And out of nowhere, he mentioned my name again in their convo...linking me with this other guy from the same high school -,- And in the same week, he redid the facebook thingy by deactivating and reactivating fb (note: he could no longer block me on fb anymore...coz i closed "that" facebook down) Is he trying to restart something? I'm confused....and lost. I really dunno what he's trying to do and what I should do anything. And i think...up to this point, i'm having something for him...still. Please help and thanks in advance. There are Red Flags waving all over this trainwreck of a person. This guy is bad news and is going to mess you up really bad. When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. This guy is a mess. STAY CLEAR. STAY CLEAR. No one who cares and wants a healthy relationship would act like this.Hell, no one who is healthy period would act like this. MOVE ON! 1
Talulah Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 He sounds like a psychopath. Or someone to take out his sadistic tendencies on. Red flags everywhere. You block him on facebook and be done. Please, he sounds scary. If he keeps harassing you, then tell someone.
Author dagummybear Posted July 6, 2013 Author Posted July 6, 2013 Now, I wondered....did he ever like me? And if he did, does he still like?
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