zig Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 That is: If you've been with a girl for a year and she hasn't had an orgasm, to tell her you won't bang her until she has an orgasm through oral or manual? The straight sex just isn't working and she is only willing to do oral and manual some of the time.
Dread Pirate Roberts Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 That is: If you've been with a girl for a year and she hasn't had an orgasm, to tell her you won't bang her until she has an orgasm through oral or manual? The straight sex just isn't working and she is only willing to do oral and manual some of the time. First off talking about BANGING her is probably not the best way to come and ask for help. Two, penalizing her for not being able to achieve orgasm with you through intercourse is kinda selfish. Has it ever occurred to you that you just aren't that good, or aren't compatible? Have you even asked her why she only likes oral sometimes? Have you listened to her or asked her what she likes? Tried different positions? Sometimes people don't get passionate and stay in one mode for too long.
sabre80 Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 Most women need to feel an emotional connection to a guy before they can let the walls down to orgasm. There are so many facets to a female orgasm. Though if your post is any indication of how you treat your lady its no wonder why there is a lack of emotional connection.
BradJacobs Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 That is: If you've been with a girl for a year and she hasn't had an orgasm, to tell her you won't bang her until she has an orgasm through oral or manual? The straight sex just isn't working and she is only willing to do oral and manual some of the time. Because ultimatums have worked out so well in the history of man ... Can she get off while touching herself? If so then ask to watch next time. You might be able to pick up on what she likes, how she wants to be touched, where to do the touching and spend your time and most importantly the rhythm she needs to achieve the O. If she's not comfortable with you watching then ask to video tape it.
Treasa Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 A lot of women, in fact I would say the majority, cannot climax through vaginal penetration alone. That being said, I agree that she shouldn't be penalized, and you should encourage her to show you what gets her going.
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