siankat Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Hello daters I met a guy who works in a shop, there were sparks, i noticed him checking me out the corner of my eye but even when he finished dealing with his customer he didn't ask if i needed help. So i approached him asking about....bins. I need a new one!! But i have never said the word bin so many times, to another human being...in my whole life! So we were chatting...about bins...and then when i thought i might have actually misread the signal i thought 'oh no i've taken up this poor guys time telling him the kind of bin i want...that they don't have'. Reading so far....even i wouldn't date me the obsessed bin lady (i even tapped one over to show how flimsy it was as i like to lob things in from a distance and hence why even though in all other aspects it matched the criteria i was looking for...it wasn't the bin for me). So i thanked him for his help and turned to leave when he kinda lurched forward with widened eyes and said, 'emm...by the way...cool tshirt' So we chatted more about the tshirt, music, pets, side projects etc He's a guitar teacher and i am learning guitar so after asking for his webpage (doesn't have) i asked if he was taking on new pupils (yes he was) and could i have his contact for a lesson. I gave him my number as well. My question is, i doubt i was reading the guy right....he seemed interested/shy. I could be wrong. But he hasn't messaged (was 5 days ago). Should i get in touch just for a lesson even if that means never? Should i wait X amount of time and text him? Should i wait for him to text? I split from my ex 6 months back, haven't been into the other guys i dated after, and so i feel a spark with this one but don't want to make a wrong step here. If there is such a thing. Comment, ideas, suggestion, jokes and anecdotes all very much welcomed )
white Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 1. yes hes interested obviously 2. in my experience "guitar teacher" is a codeword for a slimeball. just saying 3. setting this up under the pretext of guitar lessons is retarded, just ask him out. 1
firstworldproblems Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 This is so cute, he kinda lurched and all :-) YES. INTEREST. Obviously slightly shy/nervous though! I don't know about the guitar teacher=slimeball part, just don't have that experience to say either way. I would do one of two things: --if you are still not sure, a guitar lesson would definitely be a test of it--it could be super awkwards thou!! But you can always ask him out during/after that lesson. --or, just bite the bullet and ASK!!! He's obviously a shy guy, so go for it and ask him, don't wait for him to ask you. DO IT!!! :-) and then let us know what happened!
Author siankat Posted July 6, 2013 Author Posted July 6, 2013 Thanks guys, i will let you know what happens in the next couple of days (cos if he doesn't get in touch, i will) and will probably not do it in the context of the lesson as i have gone to a teacher i know is qualified and know already.
sdraw108 Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 But i have never said the word bin so many times, to another human being...in my whole life! Made me think of this: xkcd: Internal Monologue
Author siankat Posted July 6, 2013 Author Posted July 6, 2013 hahahahaha yes the thought, 'have i said the word 'bin' too much?!' did cross my mind. I should have mixed it up...'garbage can, trash receptacle' etc lol
Author siankat Posted July 7, 2013 Author Posted July 7, 2013 Asked to meet up.he replied straight away. Yes
white Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 Wasn't that easy? Look back over your post and what happened and ask yourself what exactly was the problem causing you to question what to do?
Author siankat Posted July 7, 2013 Author Posted July 7, 2013 Actually he seems kinda arrogant during these last txts so perhaps me asking him out fanned his ego revealing his arrogant side. He 'assumes il be able to come out tonight' its 9pm on a sunday. Or that he'll let me know when hes free in the week. No 'we' about it like il be on standby til he summons my presence lol im gonna day what my dad an grandad always said and they were real men - if a man wants u , nothing will stop him frm trying. Amen
Echo000 Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 Siankat this is awesome! i am so happy to hear you have progressed to nicely, makes me smile! Dont ever forget that indeed- if a man wants a woman, he will go to hell and back to get her. If he is interested, he will definitely start being more specific. You just need to make sure what it is he is interested in (i.e. sex, dating, etc.) Regardless, yay
Author siankat Posted July 9, 2013 Author Posted July 9, 2013 What kind of bins does he sell? ALL the ones you can think of except the one i wanted. We were literally talking rubbish
Author siankat Posted July 9, 2013 Author Posted July 9, 2013 Siankat this is awesome! i am so happy to hear you have progressed to nicely, makes me smile! Dont ever forget that indeed- if a man wants a woman, he will go to hell and back to get her. If he is interested, he will definitely start being more specific. You just need to make sure what it is he is interested in (i.e. sex, dating, etc.) Regardless, yay Thanks dude It's summer time )
Lansing Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 Wow, that last post was really over the top... Where did that come from! 1
Author siankat Posted July 9, 2013 Author Posted July 9, 2013 you sound like a sl.ut and he's going to call you when he feels a bit horny, so wait it out until he's done with this p0rn collection. just make sure you have enough beer for the night and makeup for the morning after so he doesnt pass out on waking up. Fix up a nice breakfast and you can repeat the process until you forget the makeup. hey presto! you have a relationship now still single?
Author siankat Posted July 9, 2013 Author Posted July 9, 2013 (edited) Well the OP said jokes are welcome, didnt she ? The thing about jokes is putridfishbits...they are supposed to be funny Edited July 9, 2013 by siankat
todreaminblue Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 sorry skankit, but you must admit it would have been funny if it wasnt about you nah wasnt funny....... but this from siankat made me smile widely.....The thing about jokes is putridfishbits............... we must have a different sense of humor mutantfishy.....deb
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