Lay Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Throughout my break up I wrote in a journal. I am prepared for my next break up, now knowing how to deal with one. I wanted to share this for others. I wrote to myself, "At the end of this journey, you have realized that if a relationship is meant to be, it will be. If a guy wants you back, he will be in contact with you within the first two weeks. NC will make him miss you, feel like he lost you, and want you around in his life- but it will not make a partner want to re-enter the relationship. So while you are in NC, GET THE HECK OVER HIM and only think of yourself! Don't listen to what people say-hear the facts from him ONLY. If a guy loves and misses you, he will/needs to say it to your face.. not to your friends. NC made him feel awful about lying, sad that the relationship didn't last, sad that he hurt you, remorseful that he messed the relationship up, sad that he lost you, and it made him want to hang out with you. BUT he did not want the relationship back. So in the end you kept your self respect and pride by maintaining NC. You have also showed you have a whole lot of self worth!" So this is my experience of NC and what i have learned from it! Feel free to post your experiences! 1
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