Phantom888 Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 This got me thinking last night. In a previous thread, I mentioned that I felt uncomfortable about my woman having ex's on her FB friends list. She had no problem unfriending them, as she told me my feelings were more important than those people by far. If you are familiar with FB, you know that after someone unfriends a person, all of that person's previous "likes" will not indicate "mutual friends" because the link is no longer there. So basically I know exactly whom she dated and unfriended. One thing that strikes me is that ALL of those guys are much older, bald, out-of-shape, and have creepy smiles. WTF?????!!! My woman is very beautiful. I am completely smitten by her looks. It appears she was dating some really physically unattractive guys. Which got me thinking.... perhaps those men had really great personalities? I am a cute dude... I mean, all my life women have commented about my looks. I am not GQ hot, but I'm a good-looking guy with a decent body. Is it possible that my woman is attracted to ugly dudes, and I'm just an outlier? Or has her preferences changed? She has told me how much she appreciates my "hot looks", but now I'm wondering if I'm actually her type?! I'm freakin confused, and I can't even ask her. Normally I would laugh it off, because this is something a guy would NOT get jealous about. But this freakin bothers me. Maybe in her eyes I'm as attractive as those men? Damn.... I don't know.
KungFuJoe Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Maybe you're just not as good looking as you think you are. I wonder if some of her ex's are looking at your pictures on FB and thinking "Damn she left me for THAT guy? Was she on crack???" Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Oh...and get over yourself. That is all. 8
Imajerk17 Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 (edited) Hey KungFuJoe go easy on the OP. This is the first thread he's made about his girlfriend all this week! (OK, second but who is counting? ) Seriously OP, either you worry too much or you have way too much free time on your hands. Maybe you need a new hobby? Edited July 5, 2013 by Imajerk17 7
Author Phantom888 Posted July 5, 2013 Author Posted July 5, 2013 Hey KungFuJoe go easy on the OP. This is the first thread he's made about his girlfriend all this week! (OK, second but who is counting? ) Seriously OP, either you worry too much or you have way too much free time on your hands. Maybe you need a new hobby? I'm just procrastinating during work. I just want to go home and sleep.
MrCastle Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Who cares? You got the girl. Whether she has a fetish for ugly guys and you fit that mold, or whatever. The main thing is you both find each other hot. And you're dating. Who cares about exes and/or ugly people and things such as this. 1
veggirl Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Well considering you've mentioned she is overweight maybe the other hot in shape guys just weren't interested in her. 3
Brunettie Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 I think you're worrying way too much... By her actions you can tell that she loves you so thats what matters 1
veggirl Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 I think you're worrying way too much... By her actions you can tell that she loves you so thats what matters Oh yeah, this for sure. Why do you seek out things to be bothered by? even when you say it doesn't bother you, it really must or you'd not even notice. don't self-sabotage!
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