AKisBaked Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 (edited) Some of you may have seen my previous posts about this girl I was seeing for a bit and seeing if it could turn into something more and go beyond as friends, but unfortunately it didn't work out. Not a big deal. I've moved on and have no hard feeling towards the girl or anything but now I am starting to have second thoughts about a "friend" of mine who claims to be my friend... To make this easier to understand im going to label this guy as "A" and the girl as "J" . "A" and "J" have been known each other for about 3 years so you can say they've really bonded together. I knew "J" from awhile back but never really got to know her until last month. Within a month and bit I really got to know "J" and I would hang out with "J" sometimes alone without "A" knowing. "A" claims that he is NOT interested in "J" and he just sees her as more like a little sister but "J" is always trying to hint at him to see if he will take the bait. She's always flirting with him, asking him to hang out with her, keep her company and simply she just enjoys his company. "J" has also told me that there's nothing going to happen between her and "A" she says as much as they FLIRT with each other nothing is ever going to happen between them. I find this is hard to believe considering that they are always messaging each other everyday day and night and hang out on a weekly basis. For me I am a third wheel to their relationship, and this is where I feel a bit out of place. For example when we have a group chat discussing about an event we all plan to go to, they both end up talking amongst themselves in the chat where there are other people there.. It's really annoying to constantly hear your phone go off to just see them replying to each others messages.... What I find really disappointing and annoyed about this situation is that I am constantly left in the dark and treated as a third wheel amongst them two. I feel that the term Friends are suppose to treat every individual who they know equally and unbiasly. Friends don't treat each other like dirt, because if that was the case then their not your friend. "A" and "J" are both nice people but "J" is not genuine, she's only nice when she wants to be and it feels like she has to pick and choose who she wants to talk to or be friends with.. Its like that saying " treat your friends the way you want to be treated." But she clearly treats me differently then how she treats "A" she gives him more attention, and the ego boost that he wants so that it makes it look like he's not doing anything but instead this girl wants him bad:sick:.. I've gotten tired of their relationship and how they treated me differently whenever we hung out and just in general in talking to me. I guess im just dealing with a case of "FAKE FRIENDS" Just yesterday I met up with a mutual friend that knows all of us, but she considerably talks to "J" more and she gave me her phone to look at ( she got a new phone) so I looked through it and saw a message that was from "J" and in the message she asked her if I (me) was upset with "A" and her ("J") because I haven't been talking to them. .. I just have nothing to talk to them about anymore that's all, I just don't deal with shyt like this and how friends treat each other like this. Just wanted to rant.. and get things off my chest. Hopefully no one has to go through what im going through. Cheers guys, Edited July 5, 2013 by AKisBaked
Appleness Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Anytime I have fake friends, I lose them. My time is precious and I only give my attention to people and causes that I deem to be important. I have no time to waste on people who are going to be fake. If they are unaware that I see them as being fake, I might call them out on it but that's only if I see enough potential there otherwise, I just avoid them. 1
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