bobwhite007 Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Well she ain't talkin. Denies eveything.says she has talked to none of "them", whatever that means.well she donsent delete all her texts and has been in contact with "them".I reckon ill just let it go and see what happens.I dream about it regularly.its driving me nuts.I know she is lieng and I can't get it out of her.when I get close to getting the truth she gets mad and stomps off or gets in her car and drives around. Thinking about turning the tables. I juat can't imagine sleeping with another woman.
Confused48 Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Don't revenge cheat if that is what you mean. You will hate yourself. For being as low as her. And for squandering the high ground. 2
BetrayedH Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Well she ain't talkin. Denies eveything.says she has talked to none of "them", whatever that means.well she donsent delete all her texts and has been in contact with "them".I reckon ill just let it go and see what happens.I dream about it regularly.its driving me nuts.I know she is lieng and I can't get it out of her.when I get close to getting the truth she gets mad and stomps off or gets in her car and drives around. Thinking about turning the tables. I juat can't imagine sleeping with another woman. Confronting is a fool's assignment. You just show her your cards and how to evade you. This is not quietly going into investigative mode. If you wanted much hope of finding out the truth, you've made it exponentially more difficult. By the way, having your own affair won't turn out the way you think. You'll still be mad as hell, with an exponentially worsened marriage, and a nice handful of your own guilt to choke down. 2
jnj express Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 If you want the truth, you need to be pretty heavy handed, when you confront---you just can't bring it up, and then weaken, when you get a denial, or an argument- --if you know you are right, and have your evidence---then stand in there, and if you want to keep the mge----fight for it----if you have had enuff, then you do what you gotta do.
bubbaganoosh Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 The next time she decides to stomp out, make sure you have her suitcases packed, hand them to her and tell her not to come back until she's ready to tell you what's going on. There comes a point in time where you have to make a stand and let her know that this isn't a game and your in no mood to play one. If you have the proof that she's up to no good, then why prolong the B.S. games she's playing with you. If she knows that you mean business, maybe she'll get the hint. If not, then find another woman AFTER YOU CLEAR YOUR HEAD and start over. 2
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