Spoonss Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 so this is what i plan on sending my ex as a final goodbye note after 5 years of dating. It is kind of personal and I would like to get back with her but if she doesnt respond I dont care. It is closure for me. I am writing this because after I got home from work today, I walked into my bedroom and opened my closet. And found the first movie ticket we ever went to together and I kept that and hid it away in a box. It brought me to a realization that we are done for good now and that’s all I have to remember us by. All those times we walked home from school together and we didn’t even know who either of us where. It seems so long ago when we first met and we became bestfriends what seemed to feel like overnight. I just wanted you to know that from the first time we went and got that cake and tried to sneak it into a movie until pretty much now I always thought of you as the love of my life and that we where so lucky to have found eachother. I want you to know that I never fell in love with you for the way you looked the way you dressed but with that girl who was so ok with herself that could be weird and not worry about what other people thought. It was literally like looking in a mirror but you had a vagina and boobs, bonus. That was the most beautiful thing to me and is why I fell so hard for you. It still seems weird that we are here right now from where we came from. I guess there is a reason for everything and I had some growing up to do. This whole experience has changed me in so many ways. You where my first love my first heartbreak and my first real friend, that knew pretty much everything about me including all the embarrassing weird little things I did. I guess I just needed to get this off my chest because its how I really feel. I miss my slightly akward cute girlfriend and it really hit me today I am sorry for this it’s the last thing I will ever write to you I hope when you read this it makes you smile and never forget the amazing thing we created over 5 years ago. Believe me I know its hard to see now. I will never forget the laughter and the love and I am letting go of the hurt because its not worth it anymore.
soccerrprp Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 If it proves to be cathartic for you then do it! Please do spell and grammar check! If I was losing a gf that was good to me (and vice versa) and things simply didn't work out, I would do the same, believe me. Don't let anyone tell you that this is making you any less of a man. It's a real man, someone who really cares, to say farewell in this positive manner. Good luck.
forgetmenot75 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 NO GOODBYE LETTERS. Does she want to hear from you? Did she dump you? As hurtful as it sounds, she might not care at all about your feelings on finding the ticket, etc. That are your feelings, not hers. Keep that letter for you, read and re read it but do not give it to her.
soccerrprp Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 It is kind of personal and I would like to get back with her but if she doesnt respond I dont care. It is closure for me. If this is TRUE, then do it. Ignore the people that tell you otherwise. This is about YOU and what YOU think is best for YOU to move on.
forgetmenot75 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 if you want her back do not give her the letter.
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