Steve11 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I got back with my ex. At first it was brilliant again, but then it went back to how it was. She would put me down, get aggressive, with hold affection, tantrum if she didn't get her own way, expect me to drop everything for her to do what she wanted. But, I reacted in ways I shouldn't of - I got angry back an shouted. But, me shouting was the only thing that gets remembered, so we fell out again. What's worse, I found out she'd be texting another man. She told me they kissed, but she pushed him away because she realised what she was doing. She dumped me the next day. I'm NC now. I haven't ate much in the past four days, but I've surrounded myself with friends. I've never been cheated on before & it's knocked my self esteem and confidence. It's horrible. She's horrible for doing it I always thought, even tho there was so many bad sides to her, that she was a kind, loving girl. But, I suppose this just proves she wasn't. Back to square one again.
soccerrprp Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 People, by nature, do not change. And if they do, it's typically just temporary. Sorry. BTW, it's glutton for punishment. Not gluten. When I first read the title of your post, I thought it had something to do with diet and that you were trying to be clever with word usage. (Sorry, had to mention that.) 1
marqueemoon4 Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 If you are legitimately allergic to gluten then eating it is truly punishment. Seriously though, don't beat yourself up. Damn near every person on this board has been there and done that. Key is to learn from your mistakes.
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