Vosser Posted October 20, 2004 Posted October 20, 2004 Well my girlfriend and I are on a break right now that came out of no where. she came over one Sunday after just not talking to me much for three days i know something was kinda up but not this. We were seeing each other for 4 years. I have had a really hard time coping with it. I just want to know if she is feeling the same ways about me? She told me her feelings have not changed for me but she has to be sure I m the one and needs some time and space to figure out whats the right thing to do. She seems like she is always in a good mood when i see or talk toher It kinda scares me, but the next tiem i see her she asks me tostaythenight and hold her. Iam getting mixed signals I have no idea how she is feeling and it bothers me that it has been 4 great years and she looks like the break is good for her.
bluechocolate Posted October 20, 2004 Posted October 20, 2004 There is a lot of this going around at the moment & it seems to be the women who initiate it. My take on it is you two were high school sweet hearts, right? Now you've both grown up some & moved on. She feels she needs some "space" to figure out if she wants to spend another 4 years with you or if she should be single in an adult world. Unfortunately there isn't much you can do about it except give her the space she's looking for. Maybe she'll decide to come back & maybe she won't. Only you can decide how long you can wait for her to make a decision. It kinda scares me, but the next tiem i see her she asks me tostaythenight and hold her. I think that is rather unfair. She must know that you don't want a break. If she does, then a break it should be - she shouldn't string you along, playing single one day then having you spend the night the next.
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