Gypsie Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Not sure what he is thinking now. He and I had agreed not to see other people a couple of weeks ago and I went online thinking of deleting my account. I saw him on there and thought he was still talking to girls. Apparently he was bored at work and was just cleaning up kisses in his inbox. We met online. He was annoyed. Texting he did not lie, he was never seeing anyone else He can understand my reaction but he thinks trust is important and if there is no trust it is not join anywhere. Plus he does not like drama after a long day of work cause he was planning on just slothing in front of the TV. He wrote lol after that. I sent back a text agreeing with him. That he would not have wanted to hear that after a long day at work and that I was sorry I did not mean it and hope I did not cause drama. I mentioned I did trust him that I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page thanked him for clarifying things and reminded him of how I've enjoyed spending time with him while being together. Sent one more text after saying it was just a misunderstanding agreed that trust was very important and left it at that. I tried ringing an hour after but go o answer so just left it. Not going to contact him again now because I don't want to cause drama. I want to prove to him that I am not like that and that I do trust him. Have not heard from him at all sine the last text. Not sure how to go about things now? Any way else I can fix this?
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Attack is the best defense. This guy sounds shady. If you are exclusive, profile deletion should have happened. 1
tbf Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 The more you apologize and try to "make it right", the more you accept responsibility for being wrong where it's possible you're right. He's punishing you with silence where frankly, you're coming across as needy and desperate with so many contact attempts. Don't play. Detach and withdraw. When he contacts, let him sweat it out.
Author Gypsie Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 (edited) TBF You do have a good point. He did admit that he understood my reaction. So he should. I was not completely all in the wrong by bringing it up. I think though that I worded things wrong when I first sent a text about it and I made it out like I was accusing him of something when I really did not mean to. I have only contacted him by short texts twice sharing my side of things and rang once to see if things were still ok with us. Cause I got no response and was worried. That was ok? Not texting again though. He will be busy all weekend so not expecting to hear anything from him but will give him his space. Definitely. Edited July 4, 2013 by Gypsie
Janesays Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Attack is the best defense. This guy sounds shady. If you are exclusive, profile deletion should have happened. I agree. Why does his profile still exist if you're exclusive. I don't buy his excuse...I think you caught him window shopping. Time to start adding distance.
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