Girls really get over breakup so quick or is it just show off?

[youcanever]

Pals,

 

I did something stupid and creeped on my ex's instagram and it hurt like hell.

 

I saw she is still so beautiful, and having so much great time and had lots of new friends, extended her friend circle. Even right now they are in city centre and having so much fun, drinnking and everything. Also there are guys near them.

 

What is that? How can they have so much fun while I am having bad times here?

 

She is doing just great and moving on. Blah !

 

Also she was always so warm person, and friendly, everyone just love her so much.

 

And I am opposite. Mostly cold and don't have much friends.

 

WTF is wrong with me? What should I do?

[athousandquestions]

Nothing is wrong with you. But what did you expect her to post? Pictures of herself in bed surrounded by chocolate and tissues captioned "My life sucks"?. It's normal to see how she is still getting on with her life and feel crappy because you are not a part of it.

 

But the fact is that social networking is a show. My heart is absolutely broken but I'm not tweeting, facebooking, or instagramming about it. If my ex lurks me, I look happy as a clam.

 

What are you gonna do? You're gonna get on with your life. Go back to full, strict NC which requires you to NOT LURK their social networking. You don't have much of a social life? Go GET ONE!!! Get out there and live, man. It's okay that you're hurting, it's okay that it will take you time to get over her. But you gotta try.

[youcanever]

Nothing is wrong with you. But what did you expect her to post? Pictures of herself in bed surrounded by chocolate and tissues captioned "My life sucks"?. It's normal to see how she is still getting on with her life and feel crappy because you are not a part of it.

 

But the fact is that social networking is a show. My heart is absolutely broken but I'm not tweeting, facebooking, or instagramming about it. If my ex lurks me, I look happy as a clam.

 

What are you gonna do? You're gonna get on with your life. Go back to full, strict NC which requires you to NOT LURK their social networking. You don't have much of a social life? Go GET ONE!!! Get out there and live, man. It's okay that you're hurting, it's okay that it will take you time to get over her. But you gotta try.

 

Do you use instagram?

 

While I was creeping I accidentaly liked one of her photos but unliked in 3 seconds. Do you think she saw that?

 

And I was on NC for 2 weeks and was doing great ! I hope I didn't screw this one up !!!

[Sneaky]

Doesn't matter if she saw it or not, there's no point in thinking about it you have to focus on yourself. Also it's not so bad, yeah you messed up and broke NC but you can just start again knowing not to make the same mistake again.

[youcanever]

Doesn't matter if she saw it or not, there's no point in thinking about it you have to focus on yourself. Also it's not so bad, yeah you messed up and broke NC but you can just start again knowing not to make the same mistake again.

 

I really wish i was quick enough to unlike it.

[Laur3n]

It solely depends on the situation and whether or not she is still emotionally attached. My initial breakup with my first love was devastating and took me 3 years to get over it and when he came back I left him for my now fiance and I never looked back or shed a tear.

[Mws]

City centre you from edmonton man?