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Is she interested or not?


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Quick question - if you call a girl you want to hook up with telling her to hang out at a cool event tonight and the first thing she asks is "are the others coming too"? does that mean she's not interested? We hang out in the same general group of friends but are not very close, and lately there's been flirting and back and forth banter with her...what do you think?

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Could go either way in my opinion - she might be asking because she doesn't want to go with just you, or because she'd like to go with just you and is basically checking if this is a date. Personally I'd say she doesn't. But I'm a pessimist, you won't know til you try, and kudos for taking the shot. That's how it works. If it doesn't pan out you can laugh about it later and she might even change her mind another time.

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If you have to ask, she isn't interested.

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I've been there. It could be that she's interested and wants to know if you're too... Just be honest about it.

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Why not just flat out ask her on a date (not hang out)so there's no ambiguity.

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