digitalsushi Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Hi all, recently a few weeks ago i'd made a post on the suspicion my husband was having an affair. I haven't physically caught him but there have been lots of concerns & red flags. I wish I could leave him but financially I can't and we have a wee 1 year old. I'm finding it hard to deal with at the moment and continue just as normal... I'm having issues with my self worth - I know he'd never admit to anything because that's the kind of person he is - but yeah anyway, I find myself crying at a drop of a hat and constantly too and it's also started to affect my job. Any suggests on how to keep functioning?
BetrayedH Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 You haven't responded to nearly any of the posts that were made in your other thread. Nothing will change until you change something. Will you allow finances to keep you in a crappy relationship where you cry all the time? 1
Author digitalsushi Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 i couldn't find the other thread and I can't delete this thread now. Sorry for inconveniencing you. cheers.
Realist3 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 You should not feel you are inconveniencing anyone. Post your thoughts. Open up. 3
JustAReformedGirl Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 i couldn't find the other thread and I can't delete this thread now. Sorry for inconveniencing you. cheers. No inconvenience. If you click on your username, and click on "see all posts" or "see all threads by" you should be able to locate your thread. In any case, what red flags have you been noticing?
Pierre Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 OP I read the original thread. Your H is having an affair and I suspect the OW thinks he is single. You are insecure and your H will walk all over you. Call the OW give her the news. Do nothing else and see what he does. Do not be afraid. If the OW is halfway decent she will drop your H like a hot potato. 2
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