SmithJ Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Well....I made the mistake of looking on his twitter....and now I feel like I HATE him!!!!! I haven't looked in almost a week but it makes me MAD how I'm sat here reading these threads all day HURT and CRYING over him and he's tweeting all these girls happy as F****** LARRY!!! I wanted to text him but then thought, I actually have no right to, but I'm sat here shaking that I'VE wasted so much F****** time thinking about 'ohhh well he said we'll get back together in the future' F*** THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I absolutely hate him, I honestly do. He wanted me to get my issues sorted so that is what I've been trying to do and he is there doing whatever, he's actually the biggest, lying scummy d*** who does he even think he is! Aaaaaaarggghhhhhhhh. Sorry for the rant but I honestly could scream!!!!!!
Legatus Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 The good lesson is now you know to resist temptation to look at twitter/fb. Lying b****** doesn not deserve to feel cheerful when you write to him so don't do it! I wanted to do the same but kept my cool. People like that simply don't deserve to even know that people care about them, since they are just people who play games! You have right to scream but do it for you, to get you anger out. Don't waste a single breath on such idiot ! 1
Ordinaryday Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Well....I made the mistake of looking on his twitter....and now I feel like I HATE him!!!!! I haven't looked in almost a week but it makes me MAD how I'm sat here reading these threads all day HURT and CRYING over him and he's tweeting all these girls happy as F****** LARRY!!! I wanted to text him but then thought, I actually have no right to, but I'm sat here shaking that I'VE wasted so much F****** time thinking about 'ohhh well he said we'll get back together in the future' F*** THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I absolutely hate him, I honestly do. He wanted me to get my issues sorted so that is what I've been trying to do and he is there doing whatever, he's actually the biggest, lying scummy d*** who does he even think he is! Aaaaaaarggghhhhhhhh. Sorry for the rant but I honestly could scream!!!!!! Are you really this thick?? People VERY RARELY post their real feelings on social media. If someone is feeling sad or depressed they learn pretty quickly not to post about it on Facebook cos they might get sympathy for a few statuses, but quickly they get a reputation as a whiny downer who is no fun, and people don't want to speak to them. So most people - even those in relationships - LIE on Facebook, or at least tell the truth from the best possible angle. They will tlk about all the good things going on in their lives, not mentioning the bad things. Since I was dumped I have been extremely depressed but I am not going to say that on Facebook. IF my ex looked at my Facebook she would see posts and comments and photos, tons of them, that give the appearance I am as happy as can be. I'm not, but I'm not going to post that on Facebook. Most people are the same. Did you not know this? So even if through his twitter he appears to be having a great time, that doesn't mean he really is. 1
Author SmithJ Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 He wasn't putting up cheerful tweets about how happy he'd been. Right there was trust issues in the relationship which started out at the beginning as he was always calling/texting other girls that he met on twitter. He said that he wanted to not contact them anymore because they were annoying him and constantly pestering him, calling in the middle of the night etc. So he deleted them and asked them to f*** off because he had a girlfriend. Now suddenly all these girls have popped back up and he's tweeting them asking them to call him and I've turned down dates etc and i'm not interested in anyone else. I've been so focused on him and I feel like the biggest idiot now because he's out there craving the attention of these girls. It makes me so mad because I feel like he doesn't even love me and whatever he said to me was bull s**t !!! I've done nothing but respect him and this decision. HAAAAAATE HIIIIM
Legatus Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 You have to focus on yourself. I realized that as @Ordinaryday rightly said people will lie on facebook, especially if they know people who they don't care about will look. Besides you don't know the whole story. It could be that, although he craves for attention, and he may get it on twitter, but in real life he's really sad pathetic git who is desperate. Let your anger out full time. The feeling that all was a lie is quite normal. I try not to get it to me. Of course it looks like a lie now, but people like that are so unstable. let the past be the past. All good moments will be remembered, but we can't live by them!
Author SmithJ Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 I Know you're right but I just feel so annoyed he's getting back in touch with these girls and I know he wants the attention. But if he cared about them that much in the first place he wouldn't have told them all the f*** off to be with me? I'm so so confused but still so angry. I feel like he's a liar, if you read my other threads you'll see how he called me on Saturday night saying that we'll get back together in the future. He's full of s***. Its hard to believe that 3 weeks ago we were living together and trying really hard to make it work and now I feel like I absolutely hate him. When I first saw the tweets I honestly got my phone to text him but no I've had a think I feel like even if he does get into something with one of these girls it will only fail and he'll hurt himself even more. He's such a pathetic rat.
Nicoleiia Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Why are men such douchebags? (Not all men, no offense lol) just ignore what he says on twitter and try to stay away from social media for a bit. NOTHING GOOD comes from checking out facebook or twitter. It only causes more upset. Don't do it to yourself anymore. It kills!
Author SmithJ Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 It really does and all the disillusion I had about us getting back together has vaporized meaning that in a sense i'm back to the beginning and have fallen hard on my arse. I think that the hope we would get back together made moving on easier in the sense that knowing he still loves me will make him come back (like he said he was going to) but now I know he isn't hurting, he's just creeping around looking for his next f***!! I hate him
Legatus Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Remember you felt hard, but in the same time your "arse" got a bit harder and will be less susceptible to such idiots in the future. In moments like these I can't believe I am considered the same gender with ***** like him!
Tenderheartbear Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 SmithJ...If my ex looked at my FB or Instagram (both are private pages so he can't see anyway but we'll pretend...)...if my ex looked at my FB or instagram he would see pictures of me in the VIP section of a club, smiling it up with a drink in my hand, and hugging the birthday BOY. He would see pictures of me and my girls having fun at our weekly wine night. He would see pictures of me working out or various inspirational quotes about health, fitness, love, and life. But what he can't see? The fact that my friends had to practically beg me to go out to that club to cheer me up. Wine night?...that time was basically a huge intervention organized by my friends where I cried over him most of the time. He can't see me going to my therapist every week, me not being able to concentrate at work, me being behind in school, me lashing out at others because I feel horrible, me not being able to eat, sleep, or clean my place which is in total disarray. My point here is, you can't tell what he's really going through just by looking at social media. There's always something behind the scenes...I'm not saying he's crying in the dark somewhere but people deal with things differently and you can't expect him NOT to pose in public...especially if he knows you might be watching. 1
Author SmithJ Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 Tenderheartbear.....Wow...that really made me open my eyes and made me realize so I sent him a text (I know I shouldn't) and he called me straight after. It wasn't anything insane just that I missed him. He told me he misses me too and has just been landed a very good job (which he wouldn't have got if he had of stayed with me) I was so happy for him and we spoke for 40 minutes. It was a really pleasant conversation which he said he wasn't interested in going out drinking or meeting anyone new and he was concentrating on his career but who knows what might happen in the future. I'm happy that I spoke to him and we had a really nice catch up. I'm happy to just work on myself for now as I know he is.
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