SuperGeek Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 I approach probably 1% of women I think are attractive. A lot of calculation about my success rate goes into whether or not I will even try. Usually I don't approach because the logic in my head tells me I'll get rejected. Lots of other factors too actually. Sometimes it's not even about rejection and just timing. I'm shocked you don't get approached that much. I think it's probably just lack of available guys in your surroundings. Try going to a meetup in your area. I'm pretty sure you'll get approached there. You'll probably get flooded with too much attention most likely lol. I know all about singledom. Since 2010 for me if you exclude flings and dating that didn't work out. I appreciate the compliment but can't really believe that I'll find anyone soon. I don't get approached much. Was single for 6 years until this Spring, dated a guy who was only interested in having a girlfriend so his friends would quit bugging him about being single (his friends are all married with children) - naturally things ended rather quickly and I went back to the singledom I've been subjected to since 2007
SuperGeek Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Guys get rejected all the time. I think I'm up to at least 16 rejections in a row now .. Which is why I'm taking a break and focusing on other stuff for awhile. It's definitely been a thought in my mind, but the sting of rejection still stops me. I know once I build up more nerve I'll be able to approach a guy but the situation needs to be right. Getting rejected SUCKS!
krz12 Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 I hate being around so many hot girls like the gym and at school knowing I have no shot at them or ever getting to nail them. Gotta be motivation to work out at least though.
nescafe1982 Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 I hate being around so many hot girls like the gym and at school knowing I have no shot at them or ever getting to nail them. I think I know why you keep getting rejected.
Trimmer Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 I think I know why you keep getting rejected. Oh man, just the tip of the iceberg. Just for general information, did you know that you can search a poster's previous "started threads" by going into his or her profile page and then under "Statistics", clicking on "Find all threads started by..."? Sometimes this can reveal interesting past patterns of behavior, which, while not strictly considered by the mods to be fair game to bring up and throw in a poster's face, can sometimes help to put things in perspective nonetheless. 1
sillyanswer Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 I'd hit on you if I worked with you. Before or after you stalk her on facebook?
Trimmer Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 Before or after you stalk her on facebook? Yes..........
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