Author one goal Posted July 5, 2013 Author Posted July 5, 2013 Also is it okay to check her out while I'm on equipment? Like the other day I was on the treadmill and she walked by me to take some trash to the dumpster but I kinda looked away when she walked by so she wouldn't notice me checking her out. Would she find it creepy if she caught you checking her out if she doesn't know you? I've had girls at the gym kinda notice me looking. Like there are these two super hot girls who come in together sometimes and I'm 99 percent sure they're sister because they look similar. I know one of them has caught me looking at her before recently and looked like she said something to her sister. But I've heard chicks complain to each other before about guys watching them while I'm at the gym.
Star Gazer Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Also is it okay to check her out while I'm on equipment? Like the other day I was on the treadmill and she walked by me to take some trash to the dumpster but I kinda looked away when she walked by so she wouldn't notice me checking her out. Would she find it creepy if she caught you checking her out if she doesn't know you? I've had girls at the gym kinda notice me looking. Like there are these two super hot girls who come in together sometimes and I'm 99 percent sure they're sister because they look similar. I know one of them has caught me looking at her before recently and looked like she said something to her sister. But I've heard chicks complain to each other before about guys watching them while I'm at the gym. You have to be careful. Pick one, focus on her. Don't be the guy so openly and obviously checking out allllll the hotties at the gym. THAT's a creeper.
Author one goal Posted July 5, 2013 Author Posted July 5, 2013 You have to be careful. Pick one, focus on her. Don't be the guy so openly and obviously checking out allllll the hotties at the gym. THAT's a creeper. But if you do that, then that chick might get the creeps and think you're a perv and a creep because you constantly are checkin her out. She might get scared and go tell.
Star Gazer Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 But if you do that, then that chick might get the creeps and think you're a perv and a creep because you constantly are checkin her out. She might get scared and go tell. Nah... She'll know you're checking HER out. I agree with Hokie, that you should have her "catch" you in the way he described, and use that as a lead in to a conversation.
MrCastle Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 You have to be careful. Pick one, focus on her. Don't be the guy so openly and obviously checking out allllll the hotties at the gym. THAT's a creeper. That's why I wear sunglasses
Star Gazer Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 That's why I wear sunglasses At the gym? Now *that* is creeper... 1
Pyro Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 That's why I wear sunglasses At the gym? Now *that* is creeper... Reminded me of this 4
MrCastle Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 At the gym? Now *that* is creeper... I kid. But sunglasses do come in handy when I'm in the street for that very reason. Although sometimes I still make it obvious by turning my head completely around when a pretty lady walks past me
USMCHokie Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Reminded me of this Of course the link is blocked... Or OP, you could pretend you're at Venice Beach and work out in nothing but a Speedo.
SuperGeek Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 The girl working the desk at the gym is getting hit on 20 times every 5 minutes by guys who have six pack abs. Unless you're one of those guys and you got game, you're going to have a nice rejection waiting for you. The nice part is you'll have to continue to talk to her after she rejected your ass any time you go back to the gym. Do yourself a favour and don't hit on the gym employees. It's like trying to date coworkers... not a good idea. I used to work at a gym in a previous life. The front desk girl was banging a new guy every few weeks. My advice is to avoid it.
MrCastle Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 I used to work at a gym in a previous life. The front desk girl was banging a new guy every few weeks. My advice is to avoid it. But if he puts his bid in he can be one of those lucky guys.
USMCHokie Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 I used to work at a gym in a previous life. The front desk girl was banging a new guy every few weeks. My advice is to avoid it. Clearly, the moral of this story is that it's advantageous to be a front desk girl.
MrCastle Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Clearly, the moral of this story is that it's advantageous to be a front desk girl. I thought it was advantageous to know the front desk girl.
USMCHokie Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 I thought it was advantageous to know the front desk girl. It's just another example of how advantageous it is to place yourself in opposite gender-dominated environments. Now the key is to find that mythical female-dominated environment... 2
SuperGeek Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Yeah no thanks. Wonder how many other guys have their bid in for it. I personally friend zone the front desk girl and get to know her friends. Must better probability of success in that case. Personally I don't hit on any women at the gym. Women will usually tell you they hate that. But if he puts his bid in he can be one of those lucky guys. 2
MrCastle Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Now the key is to find that mythical female-dominated environment... Justin Bieber concerts, yoga classes, male strip clubs, victoria's secret
Author one goal Posted July 5, 2013 Author Posted July 5, 2013 It's just another example of how advantageous it is to place yourself in opposite gender-dominated environments. Now the key is to find that mythical female-dominated environment... My university as of 2011 is 57 percent female to 43 percent male. Still hasn't worked in my favor.
USMCHokie Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 My university as of 2011 is 57 percent female to 43 percent male. Still hasn't worked in my favor. No, I'm talking a 10-to-1 ratio of women to men. Like dominated dominated. 1
Eggplant Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 No, I'm talking a 10-to-1 ratio of women to men. Like dominated dominated. Sign up to be in a play? 2
SuperGeek Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 You'll need to leave the USA to find that. No, I'm talking a 10-to-1 ratio of women to men. Like dominated dominated.
BeholdtheMan Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 It's like their defensive radar is on full alert and they don't like guys staring at them.What's that defensive radar defending against? Guys they find unattractive Use some wit and charm to get your foot in the door, if she's attracted to you, she won't be "defending" against you
SuperGeek Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 I'm not willing to endure Justin Bieber to get a girl. I'll just stay single in that case Secondly, I don't WANT to date a girl that LIKES Justin Bieber. Victoria's Secret works though Justin Bieber concerts, yoga classes, male strip clubs, victoria's secret
USMCHokie Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 Sign up to be in a play? Actually yes. I've heard that community theater programs often have a dire shortage of men, and the good ones are very highly sought after...
USMCHokie Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 You'll need to leave the USA to find that. There have to be some work environments that are predominantly female...I remember ES mentioning that she works almost exclusively with women...
sillyanswer Posted July 5, 2013 Posted July 5, 2013 From the first page: I'm expecting you'll soon be asking us if you can add her on Facebook. Answer is "no". And then you ask: Would it be okay to type in the gyms name on Facebook and see if I can find her if she list it as her employer? That way I know her name so I don't have to sound awkward asking what her name is. Answer is still "no". Don't stalk her on Facebook. Don't add her on Facebook. Why are you scared to ask her what her name is? Or even talk to her?
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