buzzie2 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 There is this guy that I like who I know is interested in me. We work at the same company. Well everytime that I sit next to him in the staffroom and other people are in the room, he gets nervous and then he runs into the bathroom. This has happened several times. Why do you think he is doing this?
Southern Cal Dude Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 People on drugs often do that. In this guy's case, hes just shy. Make a move and he'll open up.
somedude81 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 There is this guy that I like who I know is interested in me. We work at the same company. Well everytime that I sit next to him in the staffroom and other people are in the room, he gets nervous and then he runs into the bathroom. This has happened several times. Why do you think he is doing this? You're probably giving him a boner 3
Archgirl Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 You're probably giving him a boner Exactly what I was thinking! Snap him up, he's hot as for you 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Maybe he had a lot of coffee. I know if I have more than 1-2 cups in the morning I'll be going to the bathroom every 20-30 minutes for a few hours. Too much liquid for my bladder I guess...
Archgirl Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Maybe he had a lot of coffee. I know if I have more than 1-2 cups in the morning I'll be going to the bathroom every 20-30 minutes for a few hours. Too much liquid for my bladder I guess... Fair call. You could always test the boner theory OP. Wear something slightly sexier than normal like a littler skirt, or a semi sheer top or one which hints at cleavage (like obvs not too much for work) with sexier heels and accidentally brush his thigh/sit a little closer/ bend over in front of him or whatever works for you and see if he runs for the mens more often
thefooloftheyear Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I dunno.... Maybe its a defense mechanism...If hes shy, he might need to go the the br to get "psyched up". to be around you...Or maybe the other posters are correct..then again, if I was pitching a tent, I wouldnt necessarily go to the bathroom.Id probably take the attitude that if she saw it, so what?..see what her reaction is or? In other words, get some fun out of it..:laugh: TFY 1
coffeebean201 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 It is a work environment, so you have to have some sensitivity to the situation. even if he does like you.
Ami1uwant Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 boner theory is one option..... other option is the other extreme where he isnt interested in you that way, you make him uncomfortable so he steps out. Have you noticed who was in the room with you? Is there a person he may have been trying to avoid because he doesnt stand them? Could he also get a boner for another coworker and when this other coworker comes into the room he nedes to go to the bathroom to make sure its doesnt appear he is interested in you as well.
Tinie Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Because he has to go pee... ...Are we finished with the crystal ball gazing here? 3
steppero Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 He either knows you like him (if you have made it obvious) and he is avoiding you, or he likes you back and is a nervous reaction. No sure way to tell unless you talk to the guy. it's always hard to try and mind read someone else and what they may be thinking but you are never going to know unless you talk to him.
Archgirl Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I dunno.... Maybe its a defense mechanism...If hes shy, he might need to go the the br to get "psyched up". to be around you...Or maybe the other posters are correct..then again, if I was pitching a tent, I wouldnt necessarily go to the bathroom.Id probably take the attitude that if she saw it, so what?..see what her reaction is or? In other words, get some fun out of it..:laugh: TFY Man i'd love to work in your office Supply closet anyone?
patrol Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Going to the bathroom to relieve some stress you know?
rocketman122 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I know 2 people specifically that have digestive disorders that run to the bathroom because they cant hold it in. when they have to go, they have to go. not necessarily he has a boner or gets nervous. but who knows.
veggirl Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 wouldn't you see if he had a boner? unless his penis is very small, i mean? do guys really race off to the bathroom to rub one out when they see their (maybe) office crush? I mean really? that often? is this a private bathroom or are people walking in on him allegedly wanking? he's just nervous and going to collect himself/avoid awkward silence/etc.
sillyanswer Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 There is this guy that I like who I know is interested in me. First thought is he has to pee. Second thought is that you're very wrong. 1
Author buzzie2 Posted July 6, 2013 Author Posted July 6, 2013 This happens almost every time that I sit next to him, or anywhere near him in the lunch room that he will go to the bathroom. It doesn't matter if there is only one other person in the room or 5 others in the room, it happens EVERY time.
darkmoon Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 This happens almost every time that I sit next to him, or anywhere near him in the lunch room that he will go to the bathroom. It doesn't matter if there is only one other person in the room or 5 others in the room, it happens EVERY time. just ask him why he does it, lightly with a smile, when he is alone, don't embarrass him he will then have his chance to speak with you, and ask you out, or tell you he has a medical problem - either way, you could make a friend of him, and let things happen "Do you go to the john because you're ill?" say that but you must smile and be sincerely concerned which I guess you are
Dread Pirate Roberts Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 There is this guy that I like who I know is interested in me. We work at the same company. Well everytime that I sit next to him in the staffroom and other people are in the room, he gets nervous and then he runs into the bathroom. This has happened several times. Why do you think he is doing this? Probably has anxiety when it comes to the opposite sex. You ought to write him a little note asking him to talk to you after work or something.
white Posted July 6, 2013 Posted July 6, 2013 Honestly I find this hilarious. I'm laughing. Either he gets such an uncomfortable boner around you that he has to rush off to deal with it, or he has a combination of a health issue and nerves that combine to make him desperately need to go take a piss or a dump when you're around. Both of those are really entertaining possibilities. I actually know a woman with a current intestinal problem who has to drop whatever she's doing every half an hour for a ****. It really embarrasses her and she has to plan her whole life around maintaining access to toilets and never being in a position where she has to explain herself. I admit, I do laugh every time she runs off with an apologetic look on her face.
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