RastaBrownie Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Hi there. I will try too keep this short and simple. A couple of months ago, I met this girl, and we started dating, and everything was good. She confused me at times, though everything always fell back into place. Well, there was a couple of insidents that were rather uncomfortable, for an example: This one time she became mad at me for no reason at all, then didn't talk to me for days, and I had no idea what had even happened, but then she would contact me again, and we would procede as normal, though after everytime she would seem more and more in love with me. Then, a couple of months had gone by, and everything were great! She had met my parents, and really wanted me to meet her parents, always asking when I had the time to. She was going to her homeplace that was pretty far away for a week or so, and when she left she seemed more in love then ever, and I was happy, and so she seemed as well. But after a couple of days, she didn't talk to me. I thought she was maybe just busy catching up with family and friends, but suddenly she had come home, and not even told me. So I wrote her a message, and she responded, and then I asked her if everything was okay between us, and all I got back was that she didn't know. So I asked if I could call so we could talk, and she said it was okay. So I called and asked what was up, and she didn't respond to anything. All I ever got was: "I don't know." Then I asked if we were still together, and she just went silent again. I told her that she had to give me something, or I would just retreat from the whole relationship, and she went silent, again. After that we haven't talked, and today, I checked my facebook newsfeed, and she was in a relationship with some dude. This wasn't even three weeks after we ended.. And I still don't know what to make from any of this. Was I just something on the side? Or is he a rebound, or was I the rebound..? I have no idea what the heck happened, and I still don't. Could someone give me their opinion on all of this?
shexy Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 It sounds like she was most likely dating you and this guy at the same time, and she finally decided to stick with him for whatever reason. It sux that you obviously have feelings for her....the best advice I can give you is to try and forget it and move on to better things!
Archgirl Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 It sounds like in her mind you were never exclusive, that the entire time she was in the early stages of dating with two guys and was waiting to see which one she liked more/which one was going somewhere. When she dropped out of contact or would be distant she was more into the other dude. So sorry babes, I think you were the back-up guy when the other one wasn't available or things weren't going well so she didn't have to feel alone Move on, learn not to accept inconsistency in affections and contact especially early on xoxo
Author RastaBrownie Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 Well, I had my doubts about it too, but I was stupid enough to disregard my concerns and just continue with this girl, and I learned what happened. I have my own way of dealing with bad breakups, so no worries there, I will get over her! After all: Sadness flies away on the wings of time! Now I will just get myself together, then move on.
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