gd1039 Posted October 19, 2004 Posted October 19, 2004 There is a girl in a couple of my classes who I had my eye on for a while now. I finally took the initiative to go and talk to her the one day. Of couse, I copped out and didn't ask for her number but the other day I set that straight. We chatted for a short bit and before we parted I said "We should grab some coffee later this week." She said ok and I then said "I'll give you a call, what's your number?" She gave me it and then asked for mine. The thing that I'm not sure about is that she is very nice and outgoing when I approach her to talk, but she never approaches me to talk and I can't even be certain I have caught her glancing at me in class. I'm not sure if she is just shy, or not interested. I debated not bothering to call her and just letting it go to save myself from another rejection, but I decided to stick with my motto "Rejection is better than Regret". So, yes I am still going to call her and go for the coffee. I just feel like I haven't gotten any good signals that she is interested, and because of this I don't know if I am setting myself up for failure... Input?
Merin Posted October 19, 2004 Posted October 19, 2004 Just because she isn't approaching you doesn't mean she isn't interested. Could be she wants you (the guy) to persue her.. and honestly she probably has/had the same fears as yourself.. rejection. She gave you her number, even went so far as to ask for yours... so I say, give her a call and go get coffee! Nothing to lose;)
surfergirl Posted October 19, 2004 Posted October 19, 2004 Remember she gave you the number - she didn't have to. She could have just blown you off. Don't wait to call her. You've got the green light - so go! I know I wouldn't give my number out if I didn't want them to call me. Good luck.
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