th90 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I cant believe my ex has the audacity to send me a birthday wish after 8 months NC. It's unbelievable. If he had attempted for a friendship, he could have said hi any other day. Using my birthday as a 'cover' is a cowardly act. Not to mention acting like nothing ever happened between us. It wasnt easy for me to just delete and ignore his text. But i did. And he knows very well i've read the message as it was sent through whatsapp. I just want to say here to people who are heartbroken and wondering, our exes dont just completely forget about us, truth is, they cant. But dont ever let a stupid text from the ex get the better of us. NC is for the best and is the only way to go. Months ago, i wanted to break NC so much with the excuse of wanting just to be friends. I could swear that i didnt desire for a possible reconciliation. The thing i couldnt see is that when we think that way, most often than not, we are actually secretly hoping that things would miraculously turn around and we'd be living happily ever after. 8 months NC later, i dont have any wish for it to be broken anymore. To hell with reconciliation, to hell with friendship. It doesnt matter anymore. My ex of 7 years left me for someone else and didnt have the guts to admit it. He, i presume, is happier now. There is no point why we should ever make contact again. The thing next to love is indifference in the sense of a man-woman/romantic relationship. When you finally come to terms with indifference, you are not bothered with the idea of friendship anymore. Sorry this has gotten pretty long. Maybe i'm just getting some trash out of my system. 2
Author th90 Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 Thanks!! It feels nice getting wished by a complete stranger 1
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