Mws Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I want my ex back. Even though we dated for 5 years I never fell out of love with her once. I was fine until today when i realised its probably done forever and it hurt so bad that it physically started to hurt. I am at a loss with how to deal with this situation now. I've been trying to keep my mind off her but I honestly cant some nights. And all i can picture in my head is laughing for hours with her.
Tenderheartbear Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I know it's hard but you will get through this. At least this is what I've read on here and what people in my personal life tell me daily. I am 17 days into NC...21 days since I've heard his voice. It has gotten easier. The pain is there but gets less and less each day. Try to keep busy doing the things you enjoy. Lean on family and close friends for support. If you practice a certain faith, stay in tune with it. You will get through this, friend.
forgetmenot75 Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Think of this: This too shall pass I know how much it hurts, but you must stay No contact. Go for a walk, call some friend, watch a comedy (I recommend Dale and Tucker vs evil You'll be fine. Stay nc
Author Mws Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 I find relationships to be very weird you can go from loving some one fully and being the happiest people in the world to now one person not even wanting to speak to the other. I use to believe in true love until this experience.
Tenderheartbear Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I understand how you could feel that way. But who knows? There might be something bigger and better out there for you.
aloneinaz Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Sadly, the only to get out of the pain is to go through it. It does get easier with the passing of time. There's lot of good threads on here about what steps to take while trying to heal. NC is the biggest one. Do some reading on the RIGHT steps to get over an ex. You don't want to be on this board 3-6 months from now posting that you can't get over your ex. Take the right steps to preventing that from happening.
Author Mws Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 Dont have a choice but to go through this she leaves on a trip in a week for 40 days.
Tenderheartbear Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I agree with aloneinaz. Take the rights steps to heal. I have been a lurker on this site and recently registered but does not mean this is my main source for healing. I've started therapy and it has really helped. If you believe in it, maybe that's something you could look into.
Vilu Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I know how hard it is! I was even thinking about breaking the no contact after almost 3 months I have (with a lot of effort) sticked into it! I even recently posted here saying I was thinking about breaking the NC. I was remembering the relationships where I TRIED to stay friends with them and were the most hurtful confusing ones. I am hurting now yes but I feel more posibilities of getting myself back each day a bit more
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