My girlfriend wants space

[mitch1988]

Hey everyone,.I've looked at all the other posts and none really are common to what's going on with my relationship. i went interstate for family reasons etc. i instantly missed my girlfriend dearly. we lived together and i regretted up and leaving for this. I've recently been fighting with her and ill admit I've been a bit overwhelming...she said she wants a breather for 2 weeks or something. Im struggling because i love her so much. she sent me this message and id appreciate all of your views and opinions on thus situation.

 

"After talking to you tonight, I realised that this isn't making me happy anymore. I think we should take a break. I'm not saying break-up and slut around. You're just being over the top right now and it's not making me want to be with you, it's pushing me the opposite way."

 

 

Thanks.

[aloneinaz]

Give her what she wants. Give her a break. Leave her be for two weeks. You can't force yourself on her and to talk to you.

 

Some times a cool down can help save a relationship or it can seal it's fate but either way, you have no choice but to give her the two weeks.

[mitch1988]

I figured that was the right thing to do. we've been together for 5 years...been through a lot but never this. only time will tell i suppose. i appreciate your insight.

[athousandquestions]

Leave her alone COMPLETELY for these 2 weeks.

 

Reply to that message with "I agree completely, message me in 2 weeks time and let me know how you feel."

 

DO NOT CONTACT HER UNTIL SHE REACHES OUT TO YOU

 

Trust me. You will take back so much power by doing this, and if you disappear immediately from her life and cut all contact she will quickly realize that she doesn't want to lose you! I doubt it would even take 2 weeks.

 

Or, she'll realize freedom is what she really wants and she'll end things but save you months and months of misery.

 

Cut contact for the 2 weeks.