NYC-BigKat Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 Yup they seem to be. I went out yesterday to do errands for work & my uncle came along. We stopped off at a bldg to collect a signature & when the girl signed her name my uncle couldn't understand it so he butts in & says, '25 & still cant write' & the girl says 'excuse me?' & my uncle says nothing & walks out but the girl asks me how old is he, whats his issues, does he have a gf? Um...huh? Anyway on the next errand he got smart mouthed with another girl at this office site & she went back & forth with him & then she wounded up introducing herself to him & she was around 30 or something. Then I overheard another girl say 'wow that guy is so rude' and 2 other girls roll their eyes and laugh but they not upset. I just dont get it. Now being rude & arrogant works over kindness? Looks like anything works over being nice in NYC .
Author NYC-BigKat Posted July 3, 2013 Author Posted July 3, 2013 LOL. NONE of this happened. None. Oh yes it did & its not funny .
soccerrprp Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 Maybe this is a NYC thing. I have NEVER in my life met a woman (or girl) that preferred rudeness over "niceness." 2
tbf Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 Oh yes it did & its not funny .Then do it and see how it works for you. 1
Author NYC-BigKat Posted July 3, 2013 Author Posted July 3, 2013 Then do it and see how it works for you. I did & it backfired .
Shaun-Dro Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 Yup they seem to be. I went out yesterday to do errands for work & my uncle came along. We stopped off at a bldg to collect a signature & when the girl signed her name my uncle couldn't understand it so he butts in & says, '25 & still cant write' & the girl says 'excuse me?' & my uncle says nothing & walks out but the girl asks me how old is he, whats his issues, does he have a gf? Um...huh? Anyway on the next errand he got smart mouthed with another girl at this office site & she went back & forth with him & then she wounded up introducing herself to him & she was around 30 or something. Then I overheard another girl say 'wow that guy is so rude' and 2 other girls roll their eyes and laugh but they not upset. I just dont get it. Now being rude & arrogant works over kindness? Looks like anything works over being nice in NYC . What your uncle showed wasn't rudeness, but witty confidence; the ability to banter with women in a whim is why he's as successful as he is, even as sleazy as your family may view him, doesn't change his stance. Others and I have told you countless times to borrow some of his skills and then grow from there, coming into yourself along the way, to become the man you're desiring to be in order to attract women. When will you realize this and stop sputtering off on useless threads about the same nonsense, just dressed in different clothing?
Cracker Jack Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 You need to stop hanging with your uncle. You choose to believe you understand what women want based on how he acts. Clearly a bad influence. Find actual friends and develop. 1
tbf Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 I did & it backfired .Gee, wonder why... It's not what you say but how you say it, although if your lines are heavily crass, you're only going to appeal to women who enjoy crassness.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 Gee, wonder why... It's not what you say but how you say it, although if your lines are heavily crass, you're only going to appeal to women who enjoy crassness. Older girls get mad with my uncle yea but the younger girls seem to like it & it works for him a lot u know. I guess its the way he does it .
MrCastle Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 I say some pretty bold stuff. It does get me noticed. Not going to lie. I say what other men are scared to say and that works for me. I don't think I'm rude, but I tease women and I say things without fearing "OH NOEZ NOW I WONT GET TEH PUSSY !!1!1!!"
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