Author BB21 Posted July 9, 2013 Author Posted July 9, 2013 It's time like this you wish you could tap into somebodys mind! No contact did start, but every couple of days I get a text of her, always about something I more or less have to reply too as i'm not a d**k. Stuff like, sorting a bill, or something she needs back. Annoys me.
flitzanu Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 It's time like this you wish you could tap into somebodys mind! No contact did start, but every couple of days I get a text of her, always about something I more or less have to reply too as i'm not a d**k. Stuff like, sorting a bill, or something she needs back. Annoys me. if it annoys you then quit responding to her. why is it your job to keep helping her?
Author BB21 Posted July 10, 2013 Author Posted July 10, 2013 It'd be our anniversary in a few weeks, I genuinelly wonder if she remembers it on the day. She was always the one to be excited for it when it was approaching. it I wonder if it makes her realise what it could have been if she was able to be faithful for once in her life.
aloneinaz Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 It'd be our anniversary in a few weeks, I genuinelly wonder if she remembers it on the day. She was always the one to be excited for it when it was approaching. it I wonder if it makes her realise what it could have been if she was able to be faithful for once in her life. I'm sure she'll remember it as your date. Women can't simply wipe those important dates or events out of their heads in a matter or weeks of months. In a couple of years, yes, they will forget. I think us dumpers think we are kicked to the curb and simply forgotten and the dumper feels no pain. I don't think that's the case all the time. My ex and I broke up multiple times. One time for almost a month. She said she was done w/me and I believed her. When we got back together, she shared a story with me that she found a shirt of mine that I'd left there in her closet after 2-3 weeks of being broken up. She said she was feeling good about the break up. Well, she pulled the shirt out and it still smelt like my cologne. She said she had a melt down and fell on the floor crying for quite some time. She then slept in it for a couple of nights. It brought back all the memories of us she said. I thought it was a sweet story but even with how the shirt made her feel, she didn't reach out and call me.. but it shouldn't matter to you anymore. You're moving on w/you life w/out her in it. It hurts, sucks but in time, you'll find that your glad that things turned out the way they did. What if you were married and had kids and had to deal with this? That would REALLY suck..
Author BB21 Posted July 11, 2013 Author Posted July 11, 2013 Today, she contacted me. I read a text saying she was upset she couldn't find a bracelet I bought her, something she loved. I asked her why did she care, she didn't love me anymore, she didn't want us, so why does it matter? She said it means so much to her, and has so much sentimental value. I told her i'd look around the house for it. We then had a general chat, and she said how nice it was to talk to me like this again, she said I went away a long time ago in her eyes, and it was so nice for us to chit chat again. She suddenly stopped texting after telling me her little brother had played Snow Patrol - Chasing cars at his assembly, a song we both loved. Ideas?
flitzanu Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 ideas for what? we've told you to stop talking to her. you're still talking to her.
BeautifulBlueEyes Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 For the love of all things holy man - WALK - no RUN - as fast as your legs can carry you AWAY! You should not be having any thoughts but how awesome your life will be now that you can start fresh. Stop looking for her bracelet and stop letting her get little claws into you with texts. Block her number and block her from your life before you get sucked back down.
BC1980 Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Today, she contacted me. I read a text saying she was upset she couldn't find a bracelet I bought her, something she loved. I asked her why did she care, she didn't love me anymore, she didn't want us, so why does it matter? She said it means so much to her, and has so much sentimental value. I told her i'd look around the house for it. We then had a general chat, and she said how nice it was to talk to me like this again, she said I went away a long time ago in her eyes, and it was so nice for us to chit chat again. She suddenly stopped texting after telling me her little brother had played Snow Patrol - Chasing cars at his assembly, a song we both loved. Ideas? You have no obligation to respond to this text. She broke up with you. She gave you a free pass to go about your business. Stop talking to her. Just cut it off.
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