Confused_Soul_23 Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 I have been speaking with her over the last week whilst she was away on vacation, just general chat really till Saturday when she told me she misses me and wished we were back at a place we went on vacation to earlier this year. I didn't tell her I missed her even though I do. She got back at the weekend and we were going to meet up but I got back late from visiting a relative and she was tired as she had got back that day. I said I was free the following night and asked if she was too. This was Sunday and I have heard nothing back. I texted her once or twice and called once too the last couple of days and heard nothing. Is she playing games?
athousandquestions Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 When you want to see someone, you make the time and effort to see them. if you really care about them you drop everything in the blink of an eye in order to see them. ESPECIALLY if this person is someone you love and want to reconcile with. Keep that in mind. She isn't exactly bending over backwards to meet up with you. 1
aloneinaz Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 It's either games or it's rude. Either way, a mature person should tell you what's up and not leave you hanging. Like the above poster stated, if she was burning with interest, she'd be all over calling you back asap. I'd ignore her IF she contacts you again unless she has a great explanation for that terrible behavior. I was recently dating a girl for a couple of weeks. We were sleeping together as well. She has kids that she needs to take care of when she's at home. She would text or call me and I return the call or text. She'd then make me wait for hours to reply? I pointed this out to her once and asked why it took her so long? I got her BS excuses. She kept doing it, even after a great weekend of hanging out and sex. She called me Monday on her way home and I missed her call. I called her back. THREE HOURS later I hadn't heard back and texted her. I got her BS excuses again. I told her we were not compatible during that text as I get that she can be busy with kids at home but not THAT busy. I think its' simply games or being rude, either way, it was a deal breaker for me..
Author Confused_Soul_23 Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 Yeh it has sent me back to square one. Still not heard from her. Why say you miss someone etc and then when it comes to talking about meeting up she gets cold feet?
aloneinaz Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 Yeh it has sent me back to square one. Still not heard from her. Why say you miss someone etc and then when it comes to talking about meeting up she gets cold feet? Never believe peoples words. Believe their actions
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