travelonic Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Many people on here are really swinging and missing on the point of all of this. . I dunno, I honestly am wondering if that is the case, or if we understand what is trying t be said but just disagree.
Author ConfusedHumanBeing Posted July 11, 2013 Author Posted July 11, 2013 I dunno, I honestly am wondering if that is the case, or if we understand what is trying t be said but just disagree. No, exactly the opposite. Believe what you want to believe. PLEASE READ PEOPLE THAT I NEVER SAID GIGS DIDNT EXIST!!!! People want to sit here behind big keyboards and argue every point that fits "their own" situation. Whatever helps people sleep at night. Im tried of reading laundry list sections on here like I'm in stats class and have to have mods come on here lol. Such childish behavior from some. No matter WTF you want to call it, the person isnt there anymore. Period. The end. They dont want to be with you anymore so trying to classify it as anything else is spinning wheels. THE ENTIRE POINT OF THIS WAS TO TELL NEW USERS TO QUIT TRYING TO FIND REASONS FOR THE BREAKUP. It leads nowhere. Not an opinion, thats a fact. Many users automatically come on here recently, read the "GIGS thread" and say "Oh they left because of that! I guess I will continue to text them trying to show them what they are missing." Then create threads about "well, I contacted them and this happened.' I did it too! Read all my past threads. I was even worse than they were lol. 1
Eivuwan Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 For me personally GIGS is a terrible reason for the break up of a serious long-term relationship. It shows a lack of maturity or self-understanding on the person who did the dumping. Also why would anyone want to take someone back who had GIGS? Who wants to be someone's second choice?
for666 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 For me personally GIGS is a terrible reason for the break up of a serious long-term relationship. It shows a lack of maturity or self-understanding on the person who did the dumping. Also why would anyone want to take someone back who had GIGS? Who wants to be someone's second choice? well true but you know what? it happens usually when the Dumper understands what he lost usually 6 month + maybe even a 4-10 years in that period he changed! changed... so you actually you not going back to the same person , not giving a person a second change ( no one getting back that easy) is stupid in my opinion cos you judged them and didn't understand the situation than maybe you are not mature forgiveness is a strong man quality
flitzanu Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 so, every story has been "i wasnt happy in my relationship and wanted to leave, i totally think i had GIGS" or maybe you just wanted to dump your bf/gf because you wanted to bang other peope? no one has said "my relationship was perfect and i suddenly decided to ruin my whoe life and bang other people"
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