NYCGuy22 Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 I have been NC on and off but most recently for 6 days and it FELT GOOD!! I was finally moving on. Then, I get a text "Hi. How are you? Can I come by and get some of my stuff?" Unfortunately, I have to respond to this. My ex gf has a truckload of stuff that I am planning to load into a friend's truck and have him deliver. I had to tell her that and that I didn't want her stopping by. I will also have to coordinate the drop off. So, is this wrong? I really have to break NC. Should I be handling differently?
aloneinaz Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 I have been NC on and off but most recently for 6 days and it FELT GOOD!! I was finally moving on. Then, I get a text "Hi. How are you? Can I come by and get some of my stuff?" Unfortunately, I have to respond to this. My ex gf has a truckload of stuff that I am planning to load into a friend's truck and have him deliver. I had to tell her that and that I didn't want her stopping by. I will also have to coordinate the drop off. So, is this wrong? I really have to break NC. Should I be handling differently? No.. I think you handled perfectly. Get your friend to drop her crap and then let her hear permanent silence.. 1
whichwayisup Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 I have been NC on and off but most recently for 6 days and it FELT GOOD!! I was finally moving on. Then, I get a text "Hi. How are you? Can I come by and get some of my stuff?" Unfortunately, I have to respond to this. My ex gf has a truckload of stuff that I am planning to load into a friend's truck and have him deliver. I had to tell her that and that I didn't want her stopping by. I will also have to coordinate the drop off. So, is this wrong? I really have to break NC. Should I be handling differently? You could (next time if she texts) get your friend to text her back and give her info, this way you won't have to text with her or speak to her. 1
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