Tobecomebetter Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 Hey all, stumbled upon this forum accidentally and would love some help with this down right unlucky guy. Thanks for reading this in the first place by the way. So let me start off by saying that a better part of my life has been taken up by study, hobbies and sporting pursuits (still do to be honest). As such I'm pretty inexperienced in woman besides the odd girlfriend I had during high school. I have a very LARGE network of friends particularly woman but thats it -friends. Being sick of this I have turned myself around in who I am - dressed better, worked on things I lacked and slowly it is coming together. Thing is while I'm all for meeting someone great - I have a thing for one particular lady but she is in a relationship. Yes I know, probably the worse 1st post for impressions from me. The old me would have befriended her, tried to get close etc but we all know that doesn't work and where it leads to. So as hard as it has been, I HAVE actually distanced myself around her while still being around (if that makes sense) unlike the hordes of guys I see hanging by her tail every day. When we are together, I've always made sure it's one on one, flirting and fun but at the same time, treating her nicely. I won't hang around though and there is no way I will grab her number in the time being. Funnily enough, this actually works. My morals mean there is no way I would try anything with her while she is in a relationship but I just want to set myself up with having the best chance should she ever be single again. Heck, I'm all for meeting someone great in the mean time that takes me away from thinking about her. It's good being at a stage in life when you have everything going for you besides a significant other. Problem is, that just accentuates my conundrum. Any tips from others would be great on how I can set myself up for the off chance my dating luck changes. If you want to jump on here and berate me about all this, feel welcomed too, any help is good help. Thanks everyone!
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